u gtta tell him that , u wnna take this relation to another way....
bina bataye to kaam nai chalega
I did the same my best frnd became my boyfrnd....
n the relation is goin very smooth ...
a frnd is a better boyfrnd bt a boyfrnd will never be a perfect frnd...
so keep that on mind
n ur smart enough

Answered by Pallavi , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:37 PM on May 15, 2009

oye abhi to bol rahey they ki sab ladkey flirty hi rehtey hain kya agar aisa hai to koi mushkil hi nahi hai ye sawal hi bebuniyad hai . but you also know it is not so to make him frnd to boy friend better to go and say him direct. but you know what is his nature and if it doesn't suit then start show you attitude in that way but slowly and start tariffbaji to dekho wo kaisa responce de raha hai kabhi kabhi ek aad step agey badho matlab cath hand or else but only to see his responce and kabhi kabhi indicate karo apni baton sey agar wo tumko chahta hoga to wo bhi express kar dega then go and say it directly.

Answered by Deepak , an ibibo Advisor, at 11:11 AM on May 15, 2009

Probably your conception about friendship is different. There is no difference between a friend who is a boy and boy friend.
Most of the young girls and boys confuse about friendship, true friendship, love, true love etc.
Why at all we need a friend? We all need someone with whom we can share our thoughts, feelings. We need to share our deepest secrets with someone. That someone is the friend. Faithfulness, loyalty and trust are keys to friendship. Without them, we often feel betrayed, left out, and lonely. In friendship, there is no backbiting, no negative thoughts, no turning away.
True friendship requires certain accountability. Real friends encourage one another and forgive one another where there has been an offense. Genuine friendship supports during times of struggle. Friends are dependable. In true friendship, unconditional love develops. We love our friends no matter what and we always want the best for our friends.
You may make friendship with any body, with a boy or a girl, no doubt. A friendship is a relation between two individuals (may be a boy and a girl or a man and a woman) with unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun. This is describes as the true meaning of friendship. With similar interests, mutual respect, care and concern, both share their feelings. That relation develops a strong attachment with each other. These general traits of a friendship come from knowing and understanding each other. Thereafter both get confidence on each other. The girl or woman feels secured with the boy/man. And that security produces trust on each other.
Trust is the vital factor of friendship which determines its longevity. To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed rare treasure.

Answered by Ramcharan , an ibibo Master, at 6:51 AM on May 15, 2009

it depend on you hina ji,, suppose you have so many friends and you have to choose best among them
try to find out some similarity in nature in hobbies, interests, and same behavior as yours.
also check he must be faithful and trustworthy, while making him your ,boy friend , just do love him these relation sometime decide to live forever as married couple do so, so you may decide to marry with him, after satisfaction, but before this you must know all about his that is he is in job, he could keep his family and run smoothly his married life,along with kids in future.
don't believe on my advice just do and choose boyfriend for you then you will do same what ever i said .

Answered by Atul , an ibibo Specialist, at 1:07 AM on May 15, 2009