Hi! Jo prob aapke saath h wo jyadatar ladako ko hoti h. Mujhe bhi shuru me hui thi. Par ise door karna bahut aasan h. Sabse pahale to aapko thodi si himmat karni padagi. Jaisa ki aapane kaha ki wo bhi shayad aapme intrested h tn aap agar usse halki - phulki baat karte h tn wo mana nahi karegi. Jaise agar wo aapk saath job karti h ya padhti h to aap office ya apane college ya kisi or cheej ke bare me baat kar sakte h. Or agar aap use jante nai h to jahan bhi aap usse mile to himmat karke usse kuch baat kare 'jaise aaj bahut garmi h' ya phir aap agar kisi bus ka intezaar kar rahe h to jaise aaj ye bur bahut late ho gai ya phir kah sakte h ki ye bus hamesha time par aati h. Aap kish bhi simpal se topic par baat kar sakte h. Lekin kuch baaton ka hamesha dhyaan rakhana.
1. Kabhi bhi seedhe jakar ye mat kahana ki mai aap se dosti karna chata hoon.
2. Jabt aap pahali baar baat karna shuru karo to bas halki-phulki hi baat karna or jab wo aapse thoda bahut bole tab baad me aapane aapko introduce kaina jaise aap bolna 'by the way i am .............(your name) badlde me wo aapko aapko jarur introduce karagi.
3. Agali baar jab bhi usse milo to aapko hui baat ka yaad hona jaruri h. Is baar aap kuch aage ja sakte ha jaise aap usse uske baare me pooch sakte uski hobby ke bare me uski pasand napasand or kuch apane bare me bataye lekin baat karte waqt mahol thoda majakia rakhe nai to use aisa lagega ki aap uska interwe le rahe h. Apane sence of humor ka pryog kare ladkian hamesha physical traits ki jagah personality traitr par dhyan deti h.
4. Is baar usse agali baar milne ke bare me jaroor pooch le.
5. Uski help karni ki koshish kare chahe choti-2 cheejo ke lie hi.
6. Agar aap kisi group me bathe h to use support kare. Agar wo apani friends ke saath h to uski taareef kare.
7. Tareef karte waqt uski physical body par kam re kam coment kare. Tareef karne ka tarika sabse alag rakhe jaise agar koi ladki khoobsurat h to agar aap use kahoge ki tum bahut sundar ho to use kuch jyada achha nai lagega kyonki ye baat wo din me 8 - 10 baar sunti hogi lekin aap use kah sakte h ki is rang ke kapadb aap par bahut achhe lagate h(jis rang ke usne pahane ho).
8. Kabhi bhi jhooti taareef na kare. Kyonkh aap agar uske baare me kuch jhoot bolte h tn use pata hoga ki aap jhoot bol rahe ho. Uskh inne beauty ke bare me coment kare.
9. Kabhi bhi dusro ka majak na udaye.
Ye sab jaroo work karega.
Agar isse kuch help nai milti to aap kya karte ho , wo ladki kya karti h, aap usse kahan milte ho sab likh kar bheje
Answered by
Abhayveer Dh
at
9:19 PM on May 04, 2011
