Many people do have such fears.When you were a child, parents would have created a sort of fear in you to make you obey their instructions.They would have spoken of ghosts coming to you if you don't obey.Many parents do this just to make their children obey.But this fear affects some children their whole life. Some of your friends would have put such ideas about ghosts,evil spirits etc upon you during conversation.Such ideas accumulate in your mind and affects your whole life. So this is just due to mind conditioning by parents and society.You must try to understand this first.
you can read some books of osho,listen to swami sugabodananda's audio speech on fear or read any other spiritual books to change your mindset.You can use some attractive dim lighting, play some soft music in your room when you are going to sleep, switch on sports channel in your TV with less volume and use sleep timer to switch off the TV automaticaly while going to sleep, put some god's picture in your room, read spiritual books before sleep etc..These things may help you to overcome fear of loneliness,darkness etc..If you are still afraid, try not to sleep alone or you can even visit a good psychiatist for counselling. Good luck.

Answered by sundar , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:59 PM on April 19, 2008

Hi! honey, this is an common fear with most of the people have......have you ever heard of the proverb...an lonely mind is devils work place...or i suggest you not to stage alone at home and if you have to then keep yourself busy..like reading good books, watching tv....or invite you frds or go to you neighbour home do something or other...and you will not have time to think anything negative...remember sweety everything is in the mind and always think positive.

Answered by Jeedith , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:37 PM on April 18, 2008

well u need to cocern a psychiatrist but if u have phobia regarding darkness and lonliness,if u like it then just sit in dark room alone (even for 5 minutes everyday)thinking about something u like the best not about that ur sitting in dark room, well or need to be hynotised .There could be many solutions to it and if u have fear that someone will kill u then i must tell u cowards die many times before their death .if u feel ,iwas somewhat right then just cocern me , i likely to have interest in all this . My suggestion can might help u. my e-mail id is-- xyzzy2005@gmail.com

Answered by nishant rana , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:13 PM on April 13, 2008

hi dear,jab bi apko darr lage so divert ur mind listen musik n close ur n think about ur friends or wat to do in future.............n,apne a6e moments yaad karo n im definately sure u will be able to take down fear,so take care

Answered by ashish , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:00 PM on April 11, 2008

Most people have this fear. Try to keep yourself engaged while alone like reading, seeing TV etc so that you don't get time to think. And try to develop confidence in yourself that you can meet any eventuality then these fears will automatically subside

Answered by vivek_govila , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:09 PM on April 05, 2008

just tell me first do you believe in GOD, if so you believe he is having immense power cause' he created this world,now we all believe that GOD is in us,or we are a part of GOD,
Now then tell me how can you fell fear when you have that power in you aswell....
believe in GOD believe in you...nothing can hurt you...

Answered by boondi , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:05 PM on April 05, 2008

do you live alone at home always ? or whinin family memebers you feel this? what are the things exactly ? any way you should live always within family members. even while sleeping your mother can help to you, think positive always in every situation or try to open the light at night . for diverting to yourself do bit worship or start to go for satsangs.. do not watch horror movies .

Answered by sunita , an ibibo Advisor, at 6:18 PM on April 04, 2008

Zindagi jaise ek saza si ho gayi hai,
gamm ke saagar me is kadar kho gayi hai,
tum kar do ek SMS yeh guzarish hai meri,
tumari SMS ki adat si ho gayi hai.
just call me ok dear .

Answered by rahul more at 11:50 PM on April 03, 2008

Always try to BUSY with any work or reading psychology books / net surfing / try to LEARN any new subject which is you dont know little bit. becoz you will try to learn always at that time u r not free / not alone

Answered by SEKHAR O , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:06 PM on April 03, 2008

see i want to tell you some thing first truth is that we are never alone.all the time we surrounded by so many supernatural powers. when ever you call them by your deep desire you will find the help. have you ever remember your "kuldevta" ? this night you try this. close the door of your room light a "deepak" in ghee put off the all the light of your room. and now concentrate on the light of the "deepak "now remember and call your "kuldevata" for help u. believe me this experiment will change your entire life. try this and let me know too..
take care

Answered by navin , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:38 PM on April 03, 2008