hi shabnam,
having sex with ur would be hubby is not wrong, it is a trust building measure... but what if something goes wrong... what if u become pregnant (u have condoms and other contraceptives, yet).. what if someone else comes to know of it... what if he leaves u (i wish it doesn't happen so)... it would shatter ur life... follow ur instincts but don't succumb to pressure... sex can wait... few think as if sex is not everything but only thing.... if ur boy--friend thinks the same better u get away from him... i write this standing in the position of ur brother.. whatever u do always try to make life happy...
Answered by
anisha
, an ibibo Advisor,
at
11:02 AM on January 17, 2008