Hi Soya,
I understand that how your friend must be feeling at this point of time when she has to lead a long life without any support.But you can see that there is not only an age gap between her and her son's friend but also a generation gap.So it might not be right if I said one should go ahead with this
marriage although scientifically there's no harm in marrying an elder person .
You should try to convince your friend that would she be happy to see somebody like her son to be her husband and who himself is unemployed?? Does it look good if her son marries somebody so elder in age like his mother and bring her home??
Even if she agrees to marry the boy ,does he really feel so? will the boy's parents ever agree to do so??
Sometimes being alone in life makes us to do a lot of unimaginable thinking which is not practical manytimes.What she may be doing might be just out of lonliness or infatuation,so is the boy who is not really mature enough ti handle his life ,how can you expect him to support her?
Is this morally justified? Ask her to think about all the consequences of doing so and if both the parties agree then you and I cant stop them from doing so.
Answered by
Srikanth
at
3:38 PM on May 15, 2009
