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Hey dude you are a married man and having sex with your girlfriend. What a pity. And see the girl also involved with other guy. Where are we heading. I think western culture is running down in Indian veins now. Just imagine what if your wife gets involved in sex with other man.

Answered by: Taseer at 12:30 PM on October 16, 2008 | Taseer's Q&A | Report Abuse
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throw the condom let her take the real thing

Answered by: Anil Bishnoi at 12:53 AM on October 15, 2008 | Anil Bishnoi's Q&A | Report Abuse
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You are doing the right thing of using the condom with your girlfriend, since you are married and wnat to have the safe sex. Since she is indulge with unprotected sex with her other friends you are safe enough from getting infected from any Sexually Transmitted Infection, if she is having and also since you are married you do not have the fear of girl getting pregnant after having the sex with you. Tell her that you wii have the sex with her always by using the condom.

Answered by: Shrihari at 10:58 PM on October 09, 2008 | Shrihari's Q&A | Report Abuse
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Actually you are not making your girl friend required arousals in indulging sex.Whether it is by protected or unprotected sex.
By doing proper fore play and making her mentally enjoy the feel of sex by erotica conversation she will enjoy sex.
Usually Indian males feel to gives sex is only in private parts contact.
In reality its making female partner get arousals and make her mentally feel aroused is important.
There is difference in making female and male ready for acts of sex is different.
Male gets erection by the just feel of woman and seeing the body parts of female.

In the case of female she will not get excited by seeing sexual parts of male.Her mind needs excitement by fore play,plus erotica conversations,making her feel to fulfill her desires/dreams/fantasies.
This makes the female to ejaculate the cum with pressure and gets her spine electrified showing the heaven of sex.
If you could give this type of sex neither your girl friend leaves you or your wife will look for another male.
This is what any female wants in sex.

Answered by: Jagadish at 9:54 PM on October 08, 2008 | Jagadish's Q&A | Report Abuse
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Pl continue to use a condom. The fact that she has multiple partners makes it unsafe for you to have a sex with her without protection.

Answered by: Ravi More at 9:23 PM on October 08, 2008 | Ravi More's Q&A | Report Abuse
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Dear John,
Well if I say you should not at all have sex with your girlfriend it would hurt you but it is the best answer for your question otherwise you should bluntly say her that you cannot do without it .
After marriage having sex with other girl is not good thing it not only causes social problems ,but disrupts life of atleast 3 main persons you ,your wife and your girlfriend.

I would also like to ask one question to you .Would you like your wife having sex with her boyfriend or any other person then you?
I am damm sure your answer is no.
So it is my earnest request to you that as you wish your wife should be loyal to you,similarly you should also remain loyal to your wife and not have any extra marital relations,instead give more time to your wife and make her happy .she would be pleased and able to satisfy more then your girlfriend because in this relationship there would not be any fear of being caught as you are doing right thing.

Hope this is enough for you to take decision for not having any extra marital relationship with any girl.
thanks,jignesh

Answered by: JIGNESH at 2:53 PM on October 08, 2008 | JIGNESH's Q&A | Report Abuse
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