I think the most important is knowing your own capacities.
If you are conscious about what you are, what you have and what is your place, the incoming problems are not so unexpected. During the time, getting experience, you can make a pattern of problems, so you will be not taken too short.
Obvious family is on the second range and friends are coming in the third.
But is better to have no expectation, because then will be not disappointments.
Answered by
Iona Lazar
, an ibibo Advisor,
at
9:07 PM on June 01, 2008