when things get hard in life i handle things with care... well, i feel it is best to discuss the matter with someone whom we can trust. when we discuss our problems with our well wishers then we get ideas to get out of problem situations.
sometimes there are things that cannot be discussed with people, they may be your secrets and may be disturbing you then you can shed some tears and feel better. still in this situation you can confide over some close friend who would not divulge your facts.
when i fail to achieve my targets then i never get disappointed. failure does wastes time and energy but gives lesson for a life time which has huge value. failure lets me learn from my mistakes... and helps me to perform well the next time.
and finally, if something is disturbing you then you don't have to keep thinking about it. when i am disturbed about something even afer venting out my feelings, i engage myself in somethign that would keep me busy and distracted from all such thoughts. and yes, spend some time with little kids, all problems are forgotten.
Answered by
A Banerji
, an ibibo Master,
at
2:21 AM on November 28, 2008