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When we are able to forgive others we are becoming like God..... If you are not ble to forgive opthers mistakes you may be about to punish them in due corse for the wrongs done by them or you may hate them. Thus the relationship will be govinda.....lost.. The good tendencies acquired should not be loossen at any cost..

Answered by: laksh man at 6:16 PM on September 17, 2008 | laksh man's Q&A | Report Abuse
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you cannot forgive someone when you feel that the mistake committed by them was deliberate and too big to be forgiven. in such a situation many a times you keep cursing yourself for being attached to such a person, you keep thinking whether you should forgive or not. you keep thinking about everything that happened. ultimately you would feel emotionally low.

Answered by: A Banerji at 11:06 PM on September 03, 2008 | A Banerji's Q&A | Report Abuse
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Then you would be always thinking about that person.

Answered by: Shamasunder at 6:44 PM on September 03, 2008 | Shamasunder's Q&A | Report Abuse
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diye jalte hain. you will loose interest in work and potential results will start declining

Answered by: Bp Malik at 5:41 PM on September 02, 2008 | Bp Malik's Q&A | Report Abuse
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It depends what is the gravity of the issue.
If you r not forgiving some one coz what he did hurted you and the thing what he or she did was for ur good then i think you need time to overcome the anger in you and forgive that person

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To be angry with some one and not forgiven that person some where makes you also unhappy. so just forgive a person and say it to GOD what you felt bad about let him handel it.... Coz the time has already passed............

Answered by: akg at 12:43 PM on September 02, 2008 | akg's Q&A | Report Abuse
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Well firstly i don't know what act has hurt you this much that you can't even forgive that person....

But i have top tell u one another perspective..For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction..Who are we to forgive???If that person had done something that wrong,he has no escape from the ultimate designer of this universe....Then why should you bother about that...


Out of ignorance,that person did something to you..Ok leave it.Don't do anything back...Don't feed that wound..Just forget it...You have a whole new world in front of you.....Think abt further possibilities rather than sticking to the old problems.....

We can't escape from the after effects of our Acts..its the universal Rule...You don't have to do anything with that...Keep refining yourselves...Shed all ur anger and pain and start smiling from now forgetting your wounds......

Just think abt ur Karma...feel free and fly like a bird...Sure,time will justify your wounds....

Good Luck..Keep Smiling...:)

Answered by: Nakshathraa at 4:55 PM on September 01, 2008 | Nakshathraa's Q&A | Report Abuse
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You will emotionally CRASH (when you can't forgive someone)! As simple as that. When you can't forgive somebody or something, you are not hurting that person or thing. The only result of not forgiving, is a perpetuating sadness within yourself. Unforgiveness sets your mind in a place where you will gravitate to more things that are sad...to more things that are not peaceful. The lack of forgiveness leads to increased misery in your life and in the way you see all the things in the world. Everything you see will be tainted by your misery and the things you see and experience will be twisted in your mind and will serve as evidence to you that the world is responsible for your pain, but not you. So, basically when you think you can't forgive, you are simply mistaken and have simply forgotten how.

Answered by: A.R. at 8:00 AM on September 01, 2008 | A.R.'s Q&A | Report Abuse
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You will never forgive yourself. To forgive someone is to let go of excessive baggage you are carrying. Let go and you will be free.

Answered by: Raj Sukheja at 1:22 AM on August 31, 2008 | Raj Sukheja's Q&A | Report Abuse
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Nurture your moments of forgiveness. Sometimes I catch myself experiencing forgiveness and then cutting it short as I mentally go back and list all the things that made me angry or hurt or upset. If this happens to you, stop yourself. Change what you are thinking. Go back to the experience of forgiveness, welcome it, and be grateful for it. What you nurture in your being is what you will experience the most.

Be patient. Forgiveness can take time. It can require you to practice the same steps over and over. You may feel it for a moment and then lose it for a week. That's just the way it goes. I console myself with the thought that if it is this hard, it must be a big step for me, and when I finally let go, I will have made real progress in my spiritual journey. As long as I am making some honest effort, I know that eventually, when I am ready, the Divine will grace me with that sweet state of forgiveness.

Answered by: Abinash Ray at 7:36 PM on August 30, 2008 | Abinash Ray's Q&A | Report Abuse
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deep forgiveness is an act of the Divine, not an act of will. When it comes, it brings a sense of acceptance and perspective that leaves us with the understanding that there is really nothing to forgive. We've all experienced the sweet release of true forgiveness, so we know its importance to our wellbeing. But what do you do if you can't forgive? Here are a few steps to take to invite forgiveness into your heart.

Answered by: Madhurima at 5:44 PM on August 30, 2008 | Madhurima's Q&A | Report Abuse
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