i suffering from stammering and i 22 year old.my only problem is job. when i an talking or speaking fellows make laugh. what i do?  

go for speech therpy, do pranayams regularly,and accept your short coming it's not your fault so don't feel bad when they laugh on you .TRY TO LAUGH ON YOURSELF .NOone will laugh on you. try it

Answered by BINDOO , an ibibo Citizen, at 9:25 PM on January 30, 2008

To be able to speak fluently in any situation is a fantasy goal in the mind of the person who stammers. There is tremendous glamour attached to the attainment of speech fluency. Such a point of view, although understandable, needs to be discouraged, since fantasies are thrilling and all thrills are emotionally de-stabilising. All our actions, including the act of speech, are neuro-muscular in nature. The brain emits electro-chemical signals that travel through the nerves and ‘order’ the required muscles to execute specific movements. The smooth transmission of these electro-chemical impulses signals can become disturbed when the mind is thrilled or excited. Stammering is a condition that feeds on emotional upheavals (another name for ‘thrills’). Most persons who stammer are so desperate for fluency that they will do just about anything to get it. It is this very desperation that takes the goal farther away!!!a daily routine of practice with timing of delivery, pausing, loudness modulation, changing of mouth dynamics’, etc. will do best.. do not care about the fluency much in the beginning... its always the content of knowledge that matters the most...for you and your job too... your co-leagues jibing at you wont decrease your pay after all... so be ready to give it your best shot and do not worry about other people ... and remember no one can belittle us . unless we ourself get ready to get belittled...just be brave...

Answered by naina arun , an ibibo Advisor, at 1:15 PM on January 29, 2008

Stammering is curable, but it requires a lot of hard work and perseverance to train yourself to overcome it. Most cities have a Speech and Hearing Institute (Govt. run), so, go and meet a speech therapist and I am sure that he will be able to help you. Can you ever imagine that Hrithik Roshan used to stammer when he was younger? ( I'm only taking his name because he is immensely popular and is easily recognizable). Hypnosis may help you temporarily, but it is essential to train your vocal cords so that you can control your speech pattern, so just go and meet that speech therapist, I'm sure he will give you good guidance. also, stammering happens when you speak really fast. so each tiem you start getting nervous or anxious, calm down, take a deep breath and speak slowly and clearly.

Answered by medha , an ibibo Master, at 10:55 PM on January 28, 2008

hai parkash
y u think about others persons agar tum sochate ho ki log haste hai to unne hasane do kucch logo ka nature hota hai ki apni kami ko chupane ke liye dusaro par haste hai tum bas yahi socho ki unka ye work hai tumne song to suna hoga na KUCCH TO LOG KAHEGE LOGO KA KAM HAI KAHANA ' bus u think always positive jaha tak job ki bat hai vo tume bahut acchi milagi bus apne talent ko duno agar apne talent hai quality hai to apko age jane se koi nahi rok sakta aap apne work , nature , behaviours se kisi ko bhi chup kar sakte hai so u think about only for ur n think always positive that u can do anything .

Answered by atul mishra , an ibibo Advisor, at 10:50 PM on January 28, 2008

well prakash if somebody laughs at this it his/her problem and shows their immaturity. but cheer up, don't panic, do u knw even actor Hritik roshan used to stammer but this can be treated via speech therepy, try this link http://www.speechfoundation.com/hmt herapy.htm n get in touch with experst there or elsetry speech pathologist in ur place

Answered by Avinash , an ibibo Advisor, at 6:44 PM on January 28, 2008

u can solve this problem.in my opinion,job is life for essential thing.u try try try....

Answered by guyghost , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:54 PM on January 28, 2008

sry can't help

Answered by Mahii , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:50 PM on January 28, 2008

am 32.. even me hv same prblm.. nw 98%came out of it.. follow this.. neglect ur friends.. because they r not.. try to speak loudly alone..chose some lonlely place.... try to speak in front of a group.... trce which the words u feel diffclt to pronounce.. there u give sm pause while speakng... try to speak slowly and loudly,, u will cm out of that

Answered by sandeep rai , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:47 PM on January 28, 2008

i give just short answer


leave this world n go ur grandparents
all problems will solve
ok

Answered by mirza , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:38 PM on January 28, 2008

Hi,prakash.that time u should be think this is not jok time.u talk to u'r soul,improve u'r will power,i m sure asap u will be find a very good job.best of luck.

Answered by ganesh at 5:18 PM on January 28, 2008