It should happen from within ofcourse because if you are pretending to be self developed, one day or teh other, this act of yours will end and you will have to come out in teh front with all your weaknesses and lies. Therefore, one you are at the path of attaining self development, ensure that it is seeping deep within you rather than superficial development
Answered by
medha
, an ibibo Master,
at
9:55 PM on May 23, 2008