a person can only be happy by his own efforts or by his own choice . comment or what do you think?  

A person can only be happy of his own efforts & by selfsatisfaction.

Answered by ashwani kuma , an ibibo Advisor, at 8:35 PM on October 19, 2008

own efforts. Mehnat ka phal meetha hota hai

Answered by Bp Malik , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:00 PM on October 10, 2008

Happyiness is a subjective again. Each hand eveyone has his own opinion on he being happy or not. But the univesal fact is hardwork has no substitute and one will be definately satisfied if he works hards in his life.

Answered by Vinay Kiran , an ibibo Specialist, at 2:16 PM on October 10, 2008

His own choice of efforts. Not all efforts would make you happy.

Answered by zach , an ibibo Advisor, at 2:05 PM on October 10, 2008

Yes it is each one's choice to be or not to be happy. I feel one must live as if there is no tomorrow!!!

Answered by J . , an ibibo Specialist, at 5:35 PM on October 09, 2008

dear Rajesh,
If I 've got Ur ques correctly. I agree to diagree.
Happiness comes when only personal efforts bear fruit of success and when the same is recognised bt OTHERS.Happiness is a feeling which enlarges when shared with others.
as far as our CHOICE goes, more or less the same thing applies.when U choose anything,it's a decisiopn making process.It's good that U've chosen(taken decision), but happiness out of that decision made will come when U passionately drive to prove that ur choice was correct.success coming out of choice made by U only can give U that satisfaction/happiness.
Regards!
=Lahiri,Kolkata.

Answered by Saumitra , an ibibo Advisor, at 5:14 PM on October 09, 2008

What ever we do it could be our choice or complesion it is totally a action that we have decided only with that we get happiness while we are at our actions. This is kind or reaction to the action.

Answered by Govindarajan , an ibibo Master, at 12:01 PM on October 09, 2008

To behappy in life one needs to have option to choose from and this is the choice. After your choice you start cultivating on the choice you made. This is your effort. And finally your efforts to shape life in the better way follows. If your choice was correct and your efforts pay you as you wish you would be the happy man.

Answered by K. Rajib G. , an ibibo Master, at 11:58 PM on October 08, 2008

hi rajesh, i think this is 50% true not 100% because humans are slaves for their senses, and senses happiness comes from the surroundings, right.
Surroundings your family friends,your collegues and most imp your own thinking.
So some times we try our best to be happy but its all situations which again makes to think is this what we want????
i think practically if thinks that make us more happy rather if we think imaginary.
hope you have understood the point.
bye

Answered by V V , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:03 PM on October 08, 2008

Being silent in his/her hobby without sharing of his won

Answered by Tapon Flower , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:27 PM on October 08, 2008