Crazy Kiya Re! Now that's one question that has given you 150 plus vistors to this question but there is no definite answers to it. Believe in yourself and present yourself in best possible way. You will find a improvised person talking to your opposite sex. Now an introvert person is like unexplored secret as his pros and cons can't be diosclosed. Do open up yourself to world and feel the difference.

Answered by jyoti , an ibibo Master, at 12:48 PM on January 15, 2008

the opposite sex is considered equal now a days. you seem to be a female, and presently women are outshining men in every field. so why feel shy in front of them? just keep your level of confidence high and move ahead. forget that you are interacting with the person of opposite sex and remember that you have to come up with nice points when a discussion is on and also show agood sence of humour. the person who never talks to his classmates, is an introvert and needs development.

Answered by a.banerji , an ibibo Master, at 11:44 PM on January 14, 2008

It sound like shyness to me. Develop some confidence in you. The key to do that is to stop treating the opposite sex as different. They are the same species, just a little different from you. Behave with them how you would behave with your friends. Don’t be shy or drawn while talking to them. Be spontaneous and talk with confidence and intellect. Don’t feel that you are inferior in anyway and have that attitude of anything you can do, I can do better. You will be fine.

Answered by medha , an ibibo Master, at 11:41 PM on January 14, 2008

If u have not frank so can talk to me .

Answered by dishu44_2007 , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:12 PM on January 14, 2008

sad n pathatic

Answered by STORM25 , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:00 PM on January 14, 2008

hello chitra...this is all depand in your thinking
pehle to aap apne mind se yeh clear karle ke apke opposit person smart ha ya phir usme kuch quality hai jo
apko confuse kar rahi hai.bas jisse bhi baat karo chha jao...wahi language use karain jisme aapko apni baat dusron se karne main dikkat na ho....anand

Answered by pankaj at 7:55 PM on January 14, 2008

First you should not feel shy.

Answered by gokul at 7:54 PM on January 14, 2008

hi chitra first how r u and what you ask this is the same thing happen to mee it's simple is that if you like that boy's that once's a time you have to ask what happen yar what is your problem can i solve it ? that type quessiton u have to ask the boy .and some period u became his friend at that time you ask about the sex problem ok bye if u have other problem then say me ok byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee eeeeeeeee

Answered by kalpesh , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:52 PM on January 14, 2008

Well, i did have a few friends just like you. But just in time they are able to manage to be normal. Basically you have to build your self image to be frank. Know what you want. Be proactive. Take the initiative. Be decisive. Treat each person you meet as if she or he is truly important. Give a firm handshake; look the other person straight in the eye. Practice both of these. Teach yourself to develop good listening skills. You can even visibly respond to the other person. Creating a positive aura will benefit you in every thing you do.

Answered by A.R.Karthick , an ibibo Master, at 7:47 PM on January 14, 2008

Let me know as what's your perception on opposite sex and as per me a girl who doesn't spak to her classmates is either having an attitude or a sober peron.

Answered by R Anand , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:32 PM on January 14, 2008