We all love to have a change. As it was difficult to adjust then, changed like this. In future a change from what is today to what was in future may help!

Is this good or bad. Yes and no! Yes, because we could see if this change helps. If it won’t help, can get back to the previous ‘level’.

No, as always expecting a change is always not good. For e.g. out of ‘boredom’ starting an extra marital affair is definitely not good. We have our family values, commitments.

Answered by BIJU V. DEV , an ibibo Advisor, at 4:26 AM on October 17, 2008

There is a comfort zone in us where we feel so okay, and shifting from there might be difficult for some people.

Answered by zach , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:22 PM on October 16, 2008

It may be difficult but not impossible. Yes change is the spice of life and one who adjusts to the changing world will survive for a long time. This is the law of nature, as the famous Charls Darwin has said, survival is the fittest is the law of nature.

Answered by Vinay Kiran , an ibibo Specialist, at 4:57 PM on October 15, 2008

It is universal truth that change is eternal. Any change is not easily accepted because it is new. As our mind starts its application with the existing knowledge, notions, dogmas and that is the reason it won't allow us to accept it easily . Therefore, it difficult to adjust in the beginning.

Answered by Vivek Anand , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:46 PM on October 15, 2008

Even spices hurt , when initially ingested ! similary there is a terminology in corporates called CHANGE MANAGEMENT , the subject that deals exclusively with what infers from the terminology ie change. We all have tendency to move with the inertia of old environment / habbits and therefore like a switched off locomotive that may travel a Km before halting due to its momentum , needs lot of brake friction to halt , we all do require the same . In fact even animals resist change and it is a natural emotion. What is commendable however , is the will do accept the reality and incorporate the change at the earliest in our life as a gift of nature, because changes are necessary to make life interesting the same way spices make the food tasty.

Answered by R H , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:00 AM on October 15, 2008

now that you are placed in a software comapny now and probably in the job that you desired, you have no tension of placement. you can freely go in for a part time job. this would be extremly benificial for you.
you would not sit idle, an idle mind is a devil's workshop, so it would be better for you to work and keep your mind in an innvative thinking process.
you would gather experience.
even a part time job would be helpful as it would give you exposure and you get many opportunities to interct with poeple.
it would also give you an idea of working in a team and working in adverse conditions, it would teach you how to handle conflicts etc.
any organisation would like to have an employee who has some kind of work experience. some work experience is muh better than a fresh student from the college.
moreover, your part time job would fetch you some money.

Answered by A Banerji , an ibibo Master, at 11:16 PM on October 14, 2008

Man is essentially resistant to change, this is his inherent nature. In real life one gets used to and comfortable in routine as there are no surprises. Nothing is more true than the phrase -" do the same things and you will get the same result ". The fact of life is that one must continuously evolve in order to progress and become better. Hence, true development can take place only when one makes a conscious effort to improve and improvise. In this respect be like flowing water - if you cannot go above the obstacle, then go beneath it or around it. Always move forward- that should be the motto in life as well. In essence, welcome positive changes and strive to do things in a more better way.

Answered by vinoo , an ibibo Specialist, at 6:23 PM on October 14, 2008

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in our lives even as we feel or actually become separated from him because of our hectic schedules or by straying from his will through carelessness and rebellion. “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.” Hebrews 13:18; so do not fear that he will abandon his plan for our salvation nor presume he will adjust his expectations of us in return. (See Hebrews 1:10-12)


Scripture records Samuel the prophet scolding King Saul for his impatient and arrogant disregard for God’s will, relaying God’s determination to remove Saul as King, giving the crown to one who would more closely obey him. In doing so, he assured everyone that, “He who is the Glory of Israel does not lie or change his mind, for he is not a man, that he should change his mind.” 1 Samuel 15:29 (See also Numbers 23:19) As “…the plans of the Lord stand firm forever, the purposes of his heart through all generations.” Psalm 33:11 We may stand in the way of the fulfillment of God’s plan for us as we reject his ways and refuse to accommodate his will for our lives, but his purpose remains the same; “…not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.” 2 Peter 3:9 As He has said, “If (David’s) sons forsake my law and do not follow my statutes, if they violate my decrees and fail to keep my commands, I will punish their sin with the rod, their iniquity with flogging; but I will not take my love from him, nor will I ever betray my faithfulness.” Psalm 89:30-33 (See also Jeremiah 7:1-19)


As David’s spiritual descendants, we too may be flogged even as we are loved. 1 John 12:5,6 “My Son, do not make light of the Lord’s discipline, and do not lose heart when he rebukes you, because the Lord disciplines those he loves, and he punishes everyone he accepts as a Son.” Hebrews 12:5,6 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16 Paul later declaring, “I am not ashamed of the gospel, because it is the power of God for the salvation of everyone who believes: first for the Jew, then for the Gentile.” Romans 1:16


In concluding a binding covenant – or contract – with Israel, the promises of God were laid out alongside his expectations of the recipients of those promises, “Carefully follow the terms of this covenant, so that you may prosper in everything you do.” Deuteronomy 29:9 Moses pointing out that the purposes of God’s promise and Israel’s oath of obedience were intended to be ongoing, “…not only with you who are standing here with us today in the presence of the Lord our God but also with those who are not here today.” Deuteronomy 29:14,15 Words echoed by Jesus when he declared, “I have other sheep that are not of this sheep pen. I must bring them also. They too will listen to my voice, and there shall be one flock and one shepherd.” John 10:16


John later wrote of this united message and congregated flock, held together by a continuing message of loving God first and foremost while loving others as ourselves. (Matthew 22:37) “…I am not writing you a new command but an old one, which you have had since the beginning. This old command is the message you have heard.” 1 John 2:7; from Jesus and throughout the Mosaic Law. Jesus fulfilling the requirements of the sacrificial system (Hebrews 9:26-28 & Matthew 5:17), love fulfilling the obligation of the law. (See Matthew 13:34, Matthew 22:34-40 and Romans 13:8-10 “…a faith and knowledge resting on the hope of eternal life, which God, who does not lie, promised before the beginning of time,…” Titus 1:2)


For in truth, “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, who does not change…” James 12:7 As “…the plans of the Lord stand firm forev

Answered by Vipan Thapar , an ibibo Master, at 4:42 PM on October 14, 2008

Changes makes many things in mans life. We have to wait for the changes in all forms

Answered by Govindarajan , an ibibo Master, at 11:10 AM on October 14, 2008