some one is watching everything happening in the world.dont care abt others.

Answered by Ravichandran , an ibibo Advisor, at 1:24 PM on June 27, 2008

Doing kindness does not actually mean to be 'soft' and 'kind'. You are a selfish if you make it evident that you are being soft and kind. This means that you are asking for recognition for your kindness. You want people to know that you are good. Thats why you are soft. And thats why some of them take advantage of you. If you really want to help others, do practical good to them. Do what they really need. Being, so called, kind and soft spoken are only selfish behaviours. Selfish for making a nice guy image. And that is why some take advantage of the apparent 'nice guy'. Therefore stop appearing to be nice guy. Instead be a tough guy who also does nice things. Don't take the blanket of softness to help others. Just help them. No pretentions.

Answered by Macchiato .V , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:57 PM on June 25, 2008

U BE SOFT & KIND TOWARDS THE RIGHT DEEDS AND UNKIND 2WARDS WRONG.

Answered by nikhil at 10:49 AM on June 25, 2008

dont fear be kind to others is a good quality. god is there to protect u.If someone is getting benefit frm u then u r genious

Answered by deepak das at 6:10 PM on June 24, 2008

First of all u don,t have 2 be kind 2 all. Only be kind 2 ur near and dear people only.

Answered by Abhishek Dey at 2:21 PM on June 24, 2008

There needs to be line between sobriety and coward-ness and our behavior and perception should be able to differentiate between them. The soft-natured attitude should be towards our trustworthy as they are the ones who deserve our benevolence and compassion. On contrary, we need to take world as they take us as many take decency as an act of coward-ness. The judgment is another aspect that makes you prepare for your actions. The well balanced action and attitude works well and make you plan your future actions.

Answered by jyoti , an ibibo Master, at 11:57 AM on June 24, 2008

Never ever trust any one. But be kind to others. Do not except anything from others.Do what you fell like doing.

Answered by J . , an ibibo Specialist, at 11:47 AM on June 24, 2008

Hi there buddy? what your saying is very possible but what i can advice is this when you are kind and soft and you perceive that someone wants to take advantage of you just avoid them or show some withdrawal or dislike.Otherwise if you get along u will end up being hurt

Answered by ASTER , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:15 AM on June 24, 2008

its survival of the fittest dude......believe me on my personal experience i would tell u......given an option......screw someone or get screwed.....always go for option 1!!!!!... people today consider kind and soft as traits of the weak...... ramraj is gone dude......

Answered by sanjay kumar , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:20 AM on June 24, 2008

yes they will takeadvantageof you.so be firm

Answered by roger bacon , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:18 AM on June 24, 2008