bcz that an our owm life style so v can leave as our wish

Answered by japu_3724 at 2:55 PM on March 06, 2008

You have control on yourself so you can influence yourself.Through your effect on self you can ircrease your area of inluence and can can inflence others.Ie you try to tackle uncontrollable area you will become frustated,so donot think to make efforts in bringing changes in others life through dirct intervention

Answered by girish , an ibibo Master, at 2:45 AM on March 06, 2008

any body wants to go their own way is not a matter bet we are going to our own way is the matter that is the best we are thing .
we dont change our own way because of sake of others .

Answered by lenin kumar , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:42 AM on March 06, 2008

charity begins at home. once you make changes in yoru own life, you will realise taht people around you are changing with you. you are responsible for and have command over only yourself, for others, you can only set an example.

Answered by medha , an ibibo Master, at 10:11 PM on March 05, 2008

If one can't change one destiny then one must change one's attitude. It is believed that we often get emotionally hurt and disheartened by others negative response or behavior. In order to makes ourself vulnerable to them, we should change our attitude and perception so that we can face the situation or person in better ways. It's our self introspection and later our self development that makes a man out of us.

Answered by jyoti , an ibibo Master, at 8:12 PM on March 05, 2008

Human tendency is just following others. Some people follow blindly. So if you are good in all your habits, people those who follow blindly follow you and even they would be proud to follow you. At the same time you cannot change by telling them or forceing them to change.

Answered by Govindarajan , an ibibo Master, at 4:10 PM on March 05, 2008

Sai Ram. Why would you want to make a difference in other's lives? Live your life the best possible way and that is to help others self-lessly.

Answered by Swamy , an ibibo Advisor, at 1:08 PM on March 05, 2008

True. Setting an example works effectively than mere sermons.I'll not tell my children or my friends to wake up early in the morning and make the best of their time. I myself will get up and start doing my jobs and look at any moment of the day with full command over my Time management.Sooner or later it catches up in the surroundings and becomes a habit.this is an example to stress on the point that in order to make a difference in other;s lives ,I should take the initiative to put in to practice what I teach.

Answered by My creations , an ibibo Master, at 12:42 PM on March 05, 2008

There is a certain age limit where you can change a person.Beyond that age limit you cant.So the best thing is to either leave them alone or join them.

Answered by Ashish , an ibibo Advisor, at 12:26 PM on March 05, 2008