U should stop thinking negative about ur future. Lack of confidence, past failures, or fear, may be the reasons for ur negative thoughts. Determination to achieve ur goals will give u confidence to think positively..

Answered by tingtong , an ibibo Master, at 4:13 PM on February 18, 2008

i have had that problem as a singer no confidence at all untill the beginning of the show but once the show starts and i am applauded i gain confidence like wise choose a career close to yourheart and work on it, think god has made u his instrument to play in this world and you have no control over it, and what is given to you as a role you need to prove it to god

Answered by sunkan , an ibibo Specialist, at 10:25 PM on February 17, 2008

first decide ur goal then be determined to get it. take it as a challenge, u r having potentials, negative thoughts are part of life, accept it and work with enthusiasm.

Answered by vishal , an ibibo Advisor, at 9:48 PM on February 17, 2008

You cannot predict what is in your future.The only thing you can do is work in your present so that your future is secured.Plan some investments so again feel secure and your family will always be there with you.

Answered by Ashish , an ibibo Advisor, at 8:24 PM on February 17, 2008

Now that you felt the need to develop yourself all that you need to do is whenever you have a negative thought overpower it immediately with a positive thought and see the difference. But the effort to do this has to be consistent and with patience you should be able to succeed.

Answered by U Manage , an ibibo Specialist, at 6:47 PM on February 17, 2008

You have to improve your knowledge and ability only with this we gain our possitive thinking. Only with our speciality we shine in all the way try to improve you in all aspects, than you will get many ways of positive thinking and you would react for the same.

Answered by Govindarajan , an ibibo Master, at 6:31 PM on February 17, 2008

Thinking negative abt future is an indication of low self confidence and inferiority complex. First u hav to start to love urself. Everybody is special in a different way, its just a matter of recognising it. once u recognise that special quality, u'll automatically start to gain confidence. Regarding future its common to feel anxious abt it but always believe that hardwork and focus can take u places!! so start focussing and try to identify the good thing in u and create the passion for it and choose that thing as ur course of future. all the best buddy!

Answered by ankit bahri , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:31 PM on February 17, 2008

Start an activity close to your heart. for example if you love painting immerse yourself in that activity so that you will not have time to think about other. This leads to not only perfection in your painting and you 'll never have negative feelings. Have confidence in your self. Move with friends who are successful and share their feelings. Read Shiv khera's book on self development and success in life.And finally don't give up hope.

Answered by My creations , an ibibo Master, at 4:22 PM on February 17, 2008