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about ave age of marriage of educated b/g is social q i want to know current trend may be my language is not good enough i want to write burb for these but n

Asked by: Nimesh in Love & Romance at   12:33 PM on November 28, 2008

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Due to education and employment problems the current trend of marriage is going late. But there is no average age for marriage among educated boys and girls. However, if you want to know about minimum age of boys and girls it has been proposed in a recent Law Commission Report to reduce the age of boys from 21 to 18.

Answered at 3:07 PM on November 28, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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r. sir i think boy who q in this category better help by girls ans as they get girls prospective & this is good open plateform for this

Asked by: Nimesh in Teenagers at   12:28 PM on November 28, 2008

Pathak's Answer

Yes, as you have said it is an open forum where any body can put questions relating to teenagers and anybody irrespective of sex (male or female) can answer.
I could not understand why you have said again that the boy who questions is better helped by girls’ answer.
An answer is the desired information sought by the asker in his/her question. Therefore, we should not presume that desired information can only be given by the girls; not by the boys. An answer should not necessarily be the one which pleases you; rather it should be the correct and relevant one.

Answered at 1:32 PM on November 28, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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Plzz sir help me. my gf is too dipressed these days coz her parents seeking boy for her for marriage. bt she loves me & she cant share that with her parents?

Asked by: Manish Dua in Love & Romance at   8:11 PM on November 22, 2008

Pathak's Answer

Only putting some question here will not going to solve the purpose my dear friend. This is what was expected. Naturally as a mother she would seek better comfort (according to her) and search for a boy to marry her. But in that situation what your girlfriend is doing? Is she depending on you alone? Then the problem will not be solved.

Answered at 8:29 PM on November 22, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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Meri gf apni mother se humare relation k bare me disscuss nahi kr pati coz wo drti hai ka uski mma apne aap ko kuchh kr na le.uske mma bhot strict hain.so ?

Asked by: Manish Dua in Love & Romance at   8:05 PM on November 22, 2008

Pathak's Answer

Your girl friend is not taking any initiative due to her fear for her mother. When the mother of the girl is strict and she sticks to her point you cannot do anything. Moreover your girlfriend also cannot do anything. In such situation both of you discuss and take a decision. Do not keep the matter hanging.

Answered at 8:20 PM on November 22, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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Me & my gf both r from diff. religion. we lv each other lottttttt. but her mother is too strict in these matters. how can we share our relation with her ?

Asked by: Manish Dua in Love & Romance at   8:08 PM on November 22, 2008

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When the mother of the girl is strict and she sticks to her point you cannot do anything. Moreover your girlfriend also cannot do anything. In such situation both of you discuss and take a decision. Do not keep the matter hanging.

Answered at 8:18 PM on November 22, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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I'm fell love with a gal who is away of things like love i want to flatened her pls help me?

Asked by: rahul flemy in Love & Romance at   2:03 PM on November 22, 2008

Pathak's Answer

Rahul, if your question has a link with your earlier question then I am sorry to tell you have you want to flatten the girl who does not know about that love which you are interpreting. Flatten has several meanings like to squash, crush, compress, roll out, level, knock down etc.etc. In what way you like to flatten her. She is your junior as you said. She is simple. Are you going to take advantage of her simplicity or her position (she is junior to you). If you really want to flatten the girl it does not speak about your good intention.
I am sorry to tell you that although you are telling that you love her I have reservation in your felling. That cannot be a love. That is infatuation; a temporary attraction towards her. Love is not like that. It is much above your perception.

Love is an impulsive feeling of attraction and affection towards others. This is an inborn element of feeling. Love can’t be conditional. It is a matter of intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. True love comes after proper understanding each other. Love among a boy and a girl grows after knowing each other, sharing feelings, caring and mutual understanding. Love is spontaneous.
The important feature in love is confidence and trust earned by both on each other. Confidence begets trust. Trust is most powerful and sustaining pole for prolongation of love. When trust is lost every thing losts.

Answered at 4:09 PM on November 22, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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me & my gf r deeply in love bt her parents dsnt allow us to marry She cant leave her mother for me & cant leave me for her mother so we cant undrstnd wt to do

Asked by: Manish Dua in Love & Romance at   6:47 PM on November 19, 2008

Pathak's Answer

This is almost the same question. Still I believe that as the mother of the girl is against your love she must have reasons for that. She may be hesitant about your capability or other aspects which she perceived from her own view. Now, are you competent enough to support both of you, if you at all decide to go by your own decision to marry the girl without consent of her mother? Talk about this point hear to heart to your beloved. And also discuss with her the realities of life when both of you would be united.
If is confident and supportive to you even without the consent of her mother then you can think of taking a bold step to marry her without the consent of her mother.

But you already told she cannot leave her mother also. In such situation nothing can be done except persuading her mother.

Answered at 9:30 PM on November 19, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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SIRIS IT POSSIBLE TO FORGET THE GIRL WHICH RAN AWAY WITH U FOR THREE DAYS & 2 NIGHTS

Asked by: ravi tagaore in Love & Romance at   5:23 PM on November 18, 2008

Pathak's Answer

It depends up on the situation. When you have to forget for your betterment and happiness it is possible to forget such a girl who ignored you and eloped with another person showing her back to you.
You might love her. But she betrayed you. She simply disregarded your love. That means she did not have any respect to you. This is against the ethics of friendship.
In friendship both should be known and understood each other.
Confidence, dependability and trust are the major elements upon which friendship lasts. When the trust is lost nothing is left for you.
Therefore, when the girl can leave you, she can discount you; there is no meaning for you to keep a space in your heart for her. You forget with a smile and live happily.

Answered at 8:14 AM on November 26, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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my dob :17.12.1979 :12.31pm amritsar can u pls let me knw regarding my marriage love or arrange

Asked by: sandeep kaur in Love & Romance at   8:03 PM on November 18, 2008

Pathak's Answer

Sandeep, you already asked the same question on this category on 15th November, 2008. I appreciate your query for your marriage. I think you may a satisfactory answer if you ask it in astrology category.

Answered at 9:49 PM on November 18, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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Me & My gf r tooo confused for wht to do in that situation. We cant live without each othr at all but her mother is not co-operating tell me plzzz wht to do ?

Asked by: Manish Dua in Love & Romance at   6:50 PM on November 19, 2008

Pathak's Answer

Both of you are in love. You cannot leave each other. But the mother of the girl is against your love. There may be reasons with her.

1. Because, there is no parents on Earth who do not love their children, who do not aspire for happiness to their children. This is universal truth. You keep this belief always in your mind. Her mother also loves her child. If she does not like your relation, there may be some reason with her. You find out that.
2. As the mother loves her, it is her wish that her daughter should always be happy in life.
3. Therefore, find out the real reason of opposing her.
4. Are you competent enough to support both of you, if you at all decide to go by your own decision to marry the girl without consent of her mother?
5. Talk about the above point to your beloved.
6. Talk to her mother; tell her the truth very sincerely. Once you can clean your breast and can give confidence to her, I hope, probably she would agree to.

Answered at 9:20 PM on November 19, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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