Wht shud a person do when his loving, dear 1 or a very imprtnt person in his life asks to do a thing his conscince do not allow or he is not cmfrtble with that?

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Asked by: Anchal in Psychological Help at 9:30 PM on May 12, 2008 | Anchal's Q&A

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Anchal,

That would be a big dilemma! But the decision is for the person to take depending on what the task to be done is.. If it is something one can never do and cannot agree to, you should have the guts to say 'NO'. Period.

Do not think of it as it as something that you would be doing for the someone special when you do not like the idea of doing it in the first place.. It may not be worth it..

Answered by: Trinklet s at 1:08 PM on May 13, 2008 | Trinklet s's Q&A | Report Abuse
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do things as per u r conscience.

Answered by: ravichandran at 11:14 AM on June 06, 2008 | ravichandran's Q&A | Report Abuse
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dont do it..always follow ur conscince,dont do someting that u wil regret

Answered by: Minha Farazi at 6:20 PM on June 02, 2008 | Minha Farazi's Q&A | Report Abuse
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Just here what ur conscience says bcoz mostly its correct & helps us to avoid doing wrong.

Answered by: Apoorva at 2:13 PM on May 28, 2008 | Apoorva's Q&A | Report Abuse
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There is the obvious answer so elogantly hidden in the Q.There the answer is more prominent.If I am correctly reading in between the lines than the way to act is to follow one's conscience.Your con... is the God hidden in you.If you crush it you are hurting the Almighty.A guilty person can live high and proud in the society but he can never be holy,serene and pure when his cons... is concerned..Let your Cons.... be your guide and Guru.

Answered by: Vijay Kayal at 7:01 PM on May 27, 2008 | Vijay Kayal's Q&A | Report Abuse
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simply say no... well there is nothing wrong in saying no to things you are not comfortable doing... even to near and dear ones.

Answered by: kanika.. .. at 4:26 PM on May 20, 2008 | kanika.. ..'s Q&A | Report Abuse
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if the other person is so dear to you.. then h/she'll for sure understand that you are not comfortable with it.. and i would be at your place then i will never do something i am not comfortable with.

Answered by: rakesh sain at 2:40 PM on May 19, 2008 | rakesh sain's Q&A | Report Abuse
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If you know full well that what you are being asked to do now will definitely prick your conscience later, the right option is to say it to his face, whoever it might be, that you are not going to do it. That will make the person understand that you are not game for anything.

Answered by: C. Densingh at 10:03 PM on May 17, 2008 | C. Densingh's Q&A | Report Abuse
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ANCHAL...HE MIGHT BE LUVING ND DEAR ONE FOR THAT PERSON WHO IS NT CMFRTABLE..BUE PERSON WHO HAS ASKE FOR SUCH FAVOUR FOR HIM HE/SHE MIGHT JUST B A THING FOR PLEASURE. IF THE 'ASKER' IS SERIOUS HE WUD UNDERSTAND ND AVOID ASKING FRO FAVOUR AGAIN...BUT IF HE IS 'ADVANTAGE SEEKER'...HE WLL CONTINUE PURSUING FOR THAT THNG. SO THE PERSON WHO IS NT COMFRTABLE SHUD STAND FIRMLY ON HIS GROUND AND AS PER THE OTHER PERSON UNDERSTANDING SHUD RETHINK OF CONTINUING RELATIONSHIP.

Answered by: AKSHAT at 10:20 PM on May 15, 2008 | AKSHAT's Q&A | Report Abuse
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He should refuse the request . Because when he is not carring U then why should you.

Answered by: Lucky love at 6:33 PM on May 14, 2008 | Lucky love's Q&A | Report Abuse
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