My wife complains that i dont talk to her cheerfully. she developed some pain in right side and she blame me that i am responsible. i am tomuch engaged in work  

well tell her....you really love her...how you feel for her....and evrey day try to convince her...u r busy so i cant give much time to you

and i have 1 trick..use that rick

everytime you return from the offiice..praise her

means praise her looks
ptraise her cooking
praise her hair

and try to flirt with her

that you were done just after marrainge and b4 that

try this and give me reply

Answered by Neha Shah at 10:17 AM on July 06, 2008

For this there is only one solution, try to sped some time with her , try to take her in your confidence that you are busy and whenever if she calls you talk to her sweetly ,even if she is annoyed keep patience,smile,compliment her.You can atleast call her once a day for a few minutes so that she doesnot feel neglected.Ask her to spend her time with her friends.But you can not rid of her. u have to and have to give her time.and rest for pain, take her to the doctor,and take care of her.

Answered by Shikha Tomer at 6:37 PM on June 29, 2008

A man like you absorbed in your work cannot keep everyone around you in good cheer all the time. However, you have to spare some moments to inquire about the well-being of your near and dear ones. Once your close ones feel neglected, they will naturally put the blame on you for whatever wrong happens to them. Familiarity may breed contempt but it is our duty to see that everyone around us is happy.

Answered by C. Densingh at 9:45 PM on June 28, 2008

Better engage your wife also. Satisfy her, love her and then work next..

Answered by krish at 11:08 PM on June 17, 2008

First of all you admit your wife's complain even if it is wrong and tell her with cheer ful word and share some responsibility with her so u will enjoy your rest of life with she.

Answered by JANAK at 4:57 PM on June 17, 2008

MOOVE LAGAHO

Answered by rash rash at 4:11 PM on June 17, 2008

get out some time for her stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!! she is the one that runs the house n your life, even if you do not believe it!!!! what if you wake up late, coz she did not wake you? n then you were delayede coz she did not get your clothes readey? n then you left without eating and got hungry midway thru' the meeting?
so realise how much your wife does for you, without making a noise, n give her some quality time........... God i hope you don't have kids, or they must feel neglected too.....................

Answered by Prashant at 1:13 AM on June 17, 2008

To some extent your wife is right. your compassionate words and words of love and care shall transmit extra energy and enthuciasm to her as the mind is more important than body although both are interrelated.

Answered by JYOTI at 11:17 PM on June 16, 2008