i cant find out wat i m best in.sometimes feel as if i stand nowhere.plz help me.i cant affor fr a counselor or pshycologist.  

1stly throw this idea from ur mind that u r nowhere and good for nothing
READ THIS "LIFEISNOWHERE"
2ndly write the things u think u r good at
3rdly if u r talking in terms of career then c ur pocket and if u can afford to go for that course
4thly c its job prospects
5thly asess ur capabilities else u wl take up an unsuitable course and end up more frustrated

C if these tips help u

Answered by bishakha , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:10 PM on June 30, 2008

i wud jus say say..............practice makes man perfect.............u gotta b best in wat u hav inherited..........like singing........or fashion stuff......................nething other dan dat u gotta practice............u wont b da best widout practicing

Answered by Areeb Haq , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:46 PM on June 30, 2008

dear friend i understand ur feelings being i was in such condition for some days just an year ago.my sinciar suggestion is better u read some personality devolepment books.believe me books like U CA WIN written by shiv kher and powers of mind(swami vvivekanadha) can change ur way of thinking and attitiude.what u need right now is to change ur way of thinking,that is the best way to come out from ur problem,so books like these will really let ur mind think of ur self much better than what u r right now.remeber "one tree can give one lakh match sticks but one match stick can burn one lakh trees"i mean dont let ur mind to think of u weak.one negitive thought can spoil all ur positive attitude.thatswhy i feel the biggest crime in the earth is to think ur self weak

Answered by Venkat , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:46 AM on June 30, 2008

First of all, stop comparing yourself with others. No two people can be same. This world would be a very boring place if people were like each other.
Since you are unique, you have to find your own strengths and weaknesses. No one can do it for you.
Develop your strengths, but do not pity yourself for your weaknesses.
No one is perfect. Don't try to become the God Almighty.

Answered by Kit 2007 , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:08 AM on June 30, 2008

Read Robin Sharma's The monk who sold his ferrari. It will help you

Answered by Mohammed at 11:24 PM on June 29, 2008

You should have faith in yourself only then anyone can help you. Set your goal and try for that. I know you can do it But for this you have to start. Then all will be normal.

Answered by Ashutosh , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:39 PM on June 29, 2008

u could be best in being urself which many people find difficult to be so.
life is very precious . enjoy every sec of it.
dont waste a sec in this faltu bakwas.......

Answered by Ashish at 1:47 PM on June 29, 2008

Its natural many feel the same way, so don't be disheartened. U must be having interest in either studies, any particular subject interests U most. Or music, acting, painting, electronic, sports, communication, writing etc. Find out what U are interested in & make a choice, concentrate on that particular field, work hard till U suceed. I am sure U would find ur way & do well in ur choosen field. Good Luck !

Answered by Priya V , an ibibo Advisor, at 12:20 AM on June 29, 2008

It happens with many people.But let me remind you that no one is perfect in this world.Dont think about your negetive aspects that you r not perfect in anything, but you need to boost yourself .You know many things but try to exgravate in those field in which you are good ,make yourself better.And its good if u have knowledge not only of one thing but several.Dont loose confidence.

Answered by Shikha Tomer , an ibibo Advisor, at 4:16 PM on June 28, 2008