Wht shud a person do when his loving, dear 1 or a very imprtnt person in his life asks to do a thing his conscince do not allow or he is not cmfrtble with that?  

u must 2 listen the voice of ur inner soul, coz when ur inner soul dies theres no need to die for urself (death). its said that (suurveer)very brave person die for only once in his /her life. so if u wanna kill ur inner soul for some1 then do it but dont think for upcoming guiltiness which u will feel. remember 1 thing "jeevan mea insaan tabhi apnea uusoolon (principles) se samjhota (compro) karta hai jab uskea pass dusra koi rasta na ho ya uskea assa karnea sea kisssi ka bhala hota ho". If it comes 2 ur consince n principles ,then ur loved1 dear1(as u mentioned ) must understand it , if he s ur real loved1 dear1. otherwise it means either ur loved 1 is not faithful to u, n dont care ur feeling or hes really is in difficulty n need ur help most. if its not so then why will u do some thing that ur conscince dont allow? 'Akhir jeeven mea insaan ka saath koi agar aant (end) tak deta hai to woh hai uskea siddhant(principle)'. think ur self. if he/she really loves u , it must understand ur feeling n care them. in spite of all this if u also get some great thing in life thru him/her which u can only dream about or that couldnt be achieved by u later in life (by some or other ways) then this i will sugget u --- throw ur principles n conscince thinking in dustbin n do wat he/ she want, thats the final solution that any body would say . last decision will b only urs. bye n good luck

Answered by nitin jain , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:34 PM on May 13, 2008

anchal think cool & do whatever u beleave which is true

Answered by ujjaval shah , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:29 PM on May 13, 2008

It depends on the situation..it depends who is telling to do such a thing(i mean wheather he is really ur well wisher or not)..but if u r not comfortable or not getting positive rsponse from inside then don't do dat......but think proprly b4 doing anything

Answered by Sudeshna , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:27 PM on May 13, 2008

Then listen to ur heart,dont think about ur loved one ,if he/she really love u then he never convince u again,and never say u again......anchal...be a good one i tell u if u dont do this n listen to ur heart i bet ur never feel bad about yourself,n u have proud on ur design,dont ever n never do as our loved one sys lead a tiger life ..... n i bet again.....u loved also expect this from u.say no n ur love say yes to u .bcoz everone need .............good one n confident partner.....ok do with confidence sometimes ur designs give u that u never exect ok

Answered by vikramsinghm , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:03 PM on May 13, 2008

जो इंसान बिल्कुल सही हो वो एक ही से प्यार करेगा , न की सबसे , ठिक DEAR

Answered by pramod kumar , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:26 PM on May 13, 2008

If he also has the same feelings about you and he loves you too, then he/she never demand or ask such thing like that. You shud realize that he don't deserves your love and care. But first of all tell him that you are not cmfrtble with that then wait for his reaction and only then take a suitable decision. God will definately helps you...

Answered by Altaf , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:54 PM on May 13, 2008

first of all hug that person in case he/she is ur lover & then speak softly with a smile that d wish will b fullfilled but after some time, still if he/she can't wait then just ask 4 some thing in return which u r sure he/she can't give!

Answered by Ajay , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:49 PM on May 13, 2008

one should do the thing he is comfortable with. tell ur loved one why u r doing so. if u r ready to even consider about thinking for ur loved ones need. even that person should consider about what is comfortable for u. there is a phrase-the person for whom u shed tears is not worth it and the one worth it won't make u shed them.

Answered by amy blizzard , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:47 PM on May 13, 2008