Wht shud a person do when his loving, dear 1 or a very imprtnt person in his life asks to do a thing his conscince do not allow or he is not cmfrtble with that?  

Stick to your conscince. None other than YOU are important to yourself.

Answered by Akshay at 6:03 PM on May 14, 2008

u shall sraightaway tell him about ur feelins about it and ask him to stop it....otherwise if this doesnt works out then u may have to take some serious step

Answered by aman mahajan at 5:34 PM on May 14, 2008

u can said then lets see

Answered by Aloukik at 5:09 PM on May 14, 2008

Hi Anchal,
When you love some may be your relative or friends then you just forget everything and once you are with them, you are out of world. You love the company any enjoy every moment. There should not be any kind of selfishness. But when you love some one and one is asking to do such job with which you are not comfortable and if this if you have let him/her known and after that also there is demand, then its very clear that one is playing with your emotion and expoliting you. As a person every individual has a self respect and in any case that should not be let down. If you have the self respect for your self then you can overcome each and every hurdle of your life. Once you loose your self respect, the guiltness will never let you live and the one about whom your talking will ask you for the same again and again. So, a very clear stand should be taken so that at any case your self respect not die's by doing a work which your conscince is not allowing. If you do also then its very definate that your going to loose your loved one but if you can make understand then there is every possiblity that you might be more closer then you were earlier.
Hope this might have given you a light which may help you in talking decision. If possible please let me know what you have decided to do,

Answered by pramod singh at 4:41 PM on May 14, 2008

Go with what your heart says, and do not be coaxed into doing what you do not want to do. But you also have to keep in mind the value of your relationship, as compared to the action you are being asked to take. 'Coz relationships are a 2 way street, and you have to give, in the hope to recieve. But try to convince the other person that you really don't wanna do what is being asked, and come to some sort of compromise, eg. i will do only this but not that, coz this way you are being truthful to yourself and to the the relationship. am sure if the other person values your relationship as much, he/she would agree to the compromise. and going against your heart is not being honest, as, sooner or later, you would start changing, and become something that you never wanted to be... best of luck and I hope the person ses things you way.....

Answered by prashant at 4:27 PM on May 14, 2008

When this situation come than u think from ur brain wat is right and wat is wrong and follow that answer, or ask this from a mature person to whom u trust alot okay.

Answered by Meeeeeeeeeee at 4:01 PM on May 14, 2008

what a stupid queston yaar.
koi aap ka dear one ya fir most important person kaise ho sakata hai jab ki wo aap k bare me itana v nahi janata k jo wo aap se karane ko keh raha hai wo aap nahi kar sakate ho.
Anchal agar ye matter love related hai to fir kisi aur se kuch puchane ki jarurat hi nahi hai coz jo aapko sacche dil se chahat hoga wo kavi v aap sec kuch aisa karane ko nahi kahega jis ko karane me aap uncomfortble lage.

Answered by yogesh verma at 3:48 PM on May 14, 2008

In life it is not necessary to listen others forever,and if u r feeling uncomfartablle than u must do what u wants not that wt others else.
Do not think of it as it as something that you would be doing for the someone special when you do not like the idea of doing it in the first place.. It may not be worth it.
only one thing i would like to suggest u is that when ur soul is not allowing u to do that then do not do it......or else u have to repent all ur life for doing that. it is always better to die once rather to die daily just because of that

Answered by raju at 3:00 PM on May 14, 2008