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Do kids get rude if parents scold (or spank) them frequently?  

Asked in Parenting at 6:36 PM on November 16, 2007

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My long experience as a primary teacher says that children have a strong sense of self-respect. So being scolded even for a genuine mistake can be harmful for them. The best way to rectify a mistake is to explain the thing clearly to him,so that he can realise that he's in the wrong. If he admits it,well and good.Otherwise stop talking to him. A child learns what he sees around him and usually gives back what he recieves. So handle him in such a way that he learns to be decent at any situation.

Answered by Shyme , an ibibo Advisor, at 7:53 PM on November 16, 2007

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In most real life human relationships, more can be achieved through love and willingness of persons concerned than through coercion or dominance. While more patience is required to inculcate proper manners in children it is also important not to completely alienate them by harsh means like physical punishments. If one is successful in making the child understand the need for good behavior by constantly praising and reinforcing this behavior then it last for ever, however, if on the other hand, one forces the child through punishment then such behavior will be exhibited only when the concerned adult or parent is in front of them and once the child is on this own (or alone) then he will rebel and act the way he wants to. This will work out to be very embarrassing for the parents later on. Hence, it is necessary to strike a proper balance while dealing with training of children.

Answered by vinoo , an ibibo Specialist, at 6:00 PM on November 19, 2007

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Not in front of others. Children are very sensitive to abuse and may feel inferior.

Answered by sansujai , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:25 PM on November 16, 2007

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