this space is too short for such a vast problem. Your daughter needs proper counselling. Now who does this counselling depends on you and her, whether her parents, some relative or a marriage counsellor

Answered by ajay kumar , an ibibo Citizen, at 2:03 AM on March 18, 2008

s there r,
what kind of advise u want.

Answered by evs786 , an ibibo Citizen, at 6:21 PM on March 08, 2008

out of the many people who visit the hospital not all are cured ,some are and some die also ,it does not mean that the sick people will stop going to the hospital.what happens to an individual is his or her Karma ,and ones own will power.if she has made a negative thought that her marriage will suffer it will,if she has the strength to say and feel that ,she will make her marriage beautiful it will be good. the world is like a Mirror it will give you what you gave it ,no more no less.so she should feel positive that everything will be wonderful with her,and it will be.

Answered by vinita , an ibibo Advisor, at 11:56 AM on March 05, 2008

she has seen only one side of the thing. u can find her better example and make her understand that life is what we make of it. people have happy married life as well. negative attitude should be discouraged.

Answered by kumar gupt , an ibibo Advisor, at 4:25 PM on March 04, 2008

She is saying what she see's...sit and have a open talk with her, what is marriage and why some have problems...explain to her why problems do arise in any marriages but it how we deal with it in a appropriate way...explain to her as how one can be happy after marriage....life is simple if you take things easy

Answered by Prema69 , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:34 AM on March 04, 2008

If your daughter find one marriage unsuccessful, that does not mean that all the married couples are not living happily.

Just like peanut butter holds two pieces of bread together, there are people, things, organizations, feelings, activities, etc., which can hold a marriage together. Here's a look at the peanut butter concept, examples, the negative impact, and how to avoid using it in your marriage.

Answered by Aruna Saini , an ibibo Specialist, at 12:21 AM on March 04, 2008

Elders suffer mainly due to lack of understanding. If you are a parent of a girl of marriageable age, it is your duty to explain to her that the success of any relationship is in understanding and facilitating. She should be encouraged to believe that although some marriages fail, or some are mere existence out of compulsion, there are a lot of married couples who live a happy, satisfied life, and she could be one of them. All she needs to do is to believe in that, and try to understand her husband completely and encourage him to do so. If your attitude is not positive, she is not likely to be convinced

Answered by Priya Baskar , an ibibo Advisor, at 3:37 PM on March 03, 2008

marriage is not a scary bond but part of life 2 enjoy n have regroth in every moment of dat relationship

Answered by bhawna , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:27 PM on March 02, 2008

She is rightout of ten marriages 8 suffer.Get an astrological match done, help her to workk and once she finds a good person she can marry

Answered by Dr Yukti , an ibibo Advisor, at 9:47 PM on March 02, 2008

Children usually form a preception about relationships after seeing variuos relations around them.Tell her that a sucessfull relationship depends on how you deal with it and it's not necessary that every one has to go through same trauma .Every one needs to have a partner with whom he or she spends their life.
Assure her that you find a good mate for her,and she should be strong enough to deal with all kinds of situations.And whenever you see a boy for her take her consent and respect her decision ,im sure with time she would understand .All the best.

Answered by meaning .. , an ibibo Specialist, at 12:07 PM on March 02, 2008