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6:48 PM on January 30, 2008
vinoo's Answer
Generally people tend to get upset/irritated with others because they have too much expectations in terms of how others should behave, do various jobs/activities correctly, etc,. So, the end result is non-tolerance and impatience, unfortunately this is shown more within the family environs, and is the major cause for tiffs and misunderstandings with loved ones. Please understand that no two human beings are the same and that each reacts and does things differently. Under such situations, it is best to know the limits and capabilities of other members and react with tolerance and understanding. Anything told with the intention of goodwill and sincerity will be taken in the right spirit and improved upon. However, rest assured that you cannot always be successful, so under such circumstances be wise to let the matter go and refuse to be affected or controlled by such activity/behavior of others as it is your peace of mind that is being affected. So, strike a balance and ignore where necessary. Learn to take things positively and do things that give you control on your emotions. (learn to act and not to react to stimuli- expressions of anger and irritation are reactions).
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6:23 PM on January 31, 2008
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