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What causes unhappiness?

Asked by Suparn@ in Self Development at 10:54 PM on May 02, 2008

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Dissappointments in life is the main cause of unhappiness. We start expecting things when someone or something gives us hopes. Noone craves for something which is just attractive. The craving starts from hopes of reaching it. A lonely person gets hold of any hand which is extended in friendship. When the person tries to rise from depression, & suddenly if the hand is withdrawn, that person falls into such a state of dissappointment from where he or she may never rise. The person feels she was cheated & will refuse to trust anyone in the future. That is unhappiness. Ignorance or innocence makes a person trust the other one easily. She would have survived if left alone without being given any hopes.
May u never know the depth of unhappiness, Suparna.

Answered at 4:30 AM on May 03, 2008

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KYA HAMRE SABAYTA KA VIKAS HO RAHA HAI YA HAMRE SABAYTA KA VINASH HO RAHA HAI

Asked by KILLER in Family at 8:55 AM on February 14, 2008

tingtong's Answer

Our culture will not die so easily. But there are a lot of changes as the changing times. Change is inevitable. Each of us, especially parents should teach their children our culture, & they live to show an example. In the growing age children may not agree with u, but the culture u give them remain deep rooted & they start showing it once they mature & lead a life of their own. So it is the duty of each parent to see that they teach their children the values of life.

Answered at 6:29 AM on April 29, 2008

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what is the best treatment for hyperpigmentation of the face or scarring of face

Asked by rajesh goyl in Beauty & Fashion at 6:22 AM on April 22, 2008

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Hyperpigmentation is a common, usually harmless condition in which patches of skin become darker in color than the normal surrounding skin. This darkening occurs when an excess of melanin, the brown pigment that produces normal skin color, forms deposits in the skin. Hyperpigmentation can affect the skin color of people of any race.

There are now several highly effective laser treatments. The q-switched ruby and other pigmented lesion lasers often remove pigment without scarring....
Most prescription creams used to lighten the skin contain hydroquinone.
Bleaches lighten and fade darkened skin patches by slowing the production of melanin so those dark spots gradually fade to match normal skin coloration.
by A.O.C.D.

Answered at 7:52 AM on April 24, 2008

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why a woman is considered impure if she is having menses for pooja

Asked by rajesh goyl in Puja & Rituals at 7:17 PM on April 20, 2008

tingtong's Answer

Women feel impure & not healthy & neat to do puja or visit a temple during her mensural periods.Even if they r not strictly kept away from these, most women feel it as not a physically & mentally healthy time to do auspicious things.

Answered at 12:00 PM on April 21, 2008

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when u get married is better to settle down in her house or yours.?

Asked by roger bacon in Others at 12:27 PM on April 21, 2008

tingtong's Answer

In Kerala , among Hindu Nairs who followed the Matriarchal system, after marriage men used to settle in the wife's house. They lived as joint families with a large number of members. The marriage was also between cousins from the mother's side. The property was divided among the girls, & still Nairs do'nt have the dowry system.
Now as things progressed, there r no more joint families, marriage with cousins is almost nil, so the boys do'nt settle in the wife's house. Usually they live seperately, & that is the best choice.

Answered at 10:32 PM on April 23, 2008

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do these days girls are more beautiful or it just due to fashion or media

Asked by rajesh goyl in Beauty & Fashion at 11:59 AM on April 22, 2008

tingtong's Answer

Girls were always beautiful, now they take care of their beauty in a different way than the old times, which enhances their beauty. The cosmetics & fashion help them look so.

Answered at 2:14 PM on April 24, 2008

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How can I become more confident?

Asked by Suparn@ in Self Development at 1:29 AM on April 11, 2008

tingtong's Answer

"Everyone has a will to win but very few have the will to prepare to win."says Vince Lombardi. Confidence comes from preparation, which is nothing but planning & practicing.Preparation leads to confidence.It means having the courage to face defeat without feeling defeated.Preparation, practice & hard work gives us more confidence than desire & wishful thinking.

Answered at 10:39 AM on April 11, 2008

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Pomp and splendour or purity of mind?Which do you think contribute to the effectiveness of a Puja?

Asked by My creations in Puja & Rituals at 8:08 AM on April 12, 2008

tingtong's Answer

The effectiveness of a puja is concentration, devotion, faith, & the feeling of oneness with GOD.

But dear my creations, in my opinion a little pomp & splendour will add to the atmosphere of the place of puja. Hindus r very particular in considering the idol of worship as the one who needs the best than any human. So we adorn the idol with silks & gold & silver, offer the best of fruits & food.On festivals the place is decorated in all pomp and splendor, it has a psychological positive effect on the devotees.

Answered at 7:26 AM on April 13, 2008

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What is Kundli?

Asked by Suparn@ in Puja & Rituals at 1:24 AM on March 27, 2008

tingtong's Answer

Janampatri, Kundali or horoscope is the report containing Yoni, Karana, Gana, Tithi, etc, about your Lagna, Nakshatra, Day, Date, Tithi, Month, Sade-sati time etc. This is calculated with the accurate time place & date of ur birth, & how the navagrahas have their effect on u throughout ur life is predicted.

Answered at 7:46 AM on March 27, 2008

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