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12:08 PM on June 12, 2008
swati lohani's Answer
PERFECT Relationships are perhaps your most rewarding and yet most difficult part of your physical journey to understand. YOU have a desire within your soul to see your own inward perfection and your own inward beauty, you are on a constant search for something that will reflect that to you. Now, it is the ego that has that need for reflection. It is not a validation. It is a reflection. Because if somehow you can see a reflection of beauty, and joy and harmony in your surroundings then you believe this must be a possibility and that somehow, if you are in it, it will flow to you. I wish to say to you that there is nothing that can bring that possibility inward to you. And that you must first recognize that no one, no experience, no relationship can make you a complete human being. That has to come from within.
When you are involved in a relationship, let us suggest a few guidelines that you can have in this interaction that will help you better to perceive what is taking place.
1. As you enter into any relationship, enter that relationship without expectation.
Love is a very natural component of who you are. It is only when the stress of expectation is upon you that you move into an energy that steps outside of the natural bond of love. Now, that stress may not come from within the relationship. The stress may come from outside of the relationship. But it is only when the stress appears that the natural bond of love that would guide with perfect soul interaction, becomes distorted.
So as you enter into a relationship, whatever that relationship is, enter it for the pure joy of interaction of the 'now' moment.
Now, what is likely to happen when you can do that? When you can do that chances are you will have a much richer, fulfilling, interactive relationship than one that places expectations upon each other. Because you are free to love. You are free to truly interact from a soul level and not from the mental level of expectation.
Souls know how to find their way around this planet. Many of you have been around here many, many times. This planet and relationships are not new to you. So the souls know exactly how to interweave into the action of relationship.
2. Realize that most of the time no two souls come together without design and purpose.
Enter a perfect relationship without expectation. Enter the relationship for the joy of giving of your strength, your self, your understanding, you wisdom, and your love to the other. You merely are in that relationship to share who you are with another person. This applies to your relationship with animals but let us stay focused on humanity right now. You are there that you might share of yourself with that person. That person enters your life that they might share of themselves with you.
A. You may be repeating a cycle from many lifetimes with another soul.
B. You may have just had a real good time the last lifetime you were together and you decided to repeat it this lifetime.
C. You may just be coming together for a very short period of time to complete something that needs to be completed, and it would never be intended that your entire life would be spent together. You have something to complete and whatever that may be, and please as I speak apply this to all relationships, again, family, friends, jobs, intimates, countries, it may only be a short time for completion.
You should never obligate a soul to complete a relationship that is finished. When a relationship is finished, it has served its purpose. The important thing is how the relationship ends. It is extremely important for your own soul's evolution that any relationship, be this work, be this intimacy, or family, that it is finished in a harmonious condition.
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12:48 PM on June 13, 2008
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