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How to live peacfully in this selfish world when one is dipressed due to sudden death of very close one in younge age?

Asked by Gajraj in Agony Aunt at 2:12 AM on April 27, 2009

SUKUMARAN's Answer

The Death is inevitable to we all.It came in to being with our Birth.Its like our shadow moving with us where ever we go.Even while we sleep, it keeps awake by the side of our bed.No one can escape from it because we are born as twins,Birth and Death.
But why then some of us die young and some very old.Its only the " Vidatha"who can reply to this.Actually we are all the flowers in his garden. He nourish us to grow in to differnt types of flowers ,some more beautiful and fragarent and some not so.The " Vidhatha",who is the owner of this garden plugs out the most attractive flower,he liked one to keep with him. The Master who gave the flower to us has got all the right to take it back too when ever He likes.The age is not the criteria for him.So,we have to believe this truth,because we may be the next flower He liked the most. So,taking the Death in its true spirit,realise it and come in term with it.
Death is like a sleep or rest.Sleep gives us great pleasure.Hence Death,which is a deeper sleep must give us greater pleasure.
Our noblest men die young.God gives them the reward of death for their nobleness.
Death has no power to kill any one.Death can work only wth the help of disease,war,poison,accidents,murder ers,etc.We die of these causes.Death can not kill any one directly.Death is not the master but the slave of these causes.( Donnes idea of Death )
So,do not get upseted with the death.After all everything in this world is perishable.
Ok dear.

Answered at 9:25 PM on April 27, 2009

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Any Individual who earned from ibibo ? ?

Asked by Harjinder Pa in Agony Aunt at 12:36 AM on April 25, 2009

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Yes,I have received Rs.12,000 less TDS for 12,000 points I earned.

Answered at 9:47 PM on April 26, 2009

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Hi,i want to ask that my husband is having a severe headache back side.once he was fallen from a crane n had head injury.n now he is complating pain in that are

Asked Anonymously in Agony Aunt at 10:29 PM on March 11, 2009

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I am sure he has injured his spinal cord discs and also has minor head injury.Only an MRI Scan could diagonise the extent of damage which could solve his present body problem.After diagonising the problem,you may either take him for some Ayurvedic Treatment or Alopathy treatment. But in any case do not delay any more. Early you do some thing,it will be better for him and your family.

Answered at 9:29 PM on March 12, 2009

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My husband has heart fibulation problems & become impotent. Married 29 years now sleeping in separate beds due to his back problem. Is this a failing marriage?

Asked Anonymously in Agony Aunt at 12:20 PM on March 12, 2009

SUKUMARAN's Answer

An "Uthama Pathni " should never think in this way. Suppose you are in his place and he wanted to desert you,how will you feel ? It is the great opportunity the God has given you to sympathise with his problems,share his problems and console him.What else otherwise the wife is for ? Both of your lives are not going to end here as you both are still very young. Pray. Pray for his well being and take him quitely
to an expert Doctor who will be able to save him and help you both. Love him more affectionately and he too will love you in the same degree and co-operate with you.
It is very easy to break a pot which has a slight crack,but it takes a lot of pain patience to repair a cracked pot for reuse.There lies the success in the LIFE.

Answered at 8:58 PM on March 12, 2009

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What does illegal mean?

Asked by Akhil Sharma in Agony Aunt at 7:18 AM on February 15, 2009

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A thing which is not Legal is called Illegal.It may be on the real Legal point of view ( mostly ),it can be Custom and Practice we follow point of view,it can be on Moral point of view and it can be on Religious point of view.

Answered at 6:48 PM on February 15, 2009

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Once i had sex with my sister now she wants me to have sex everyday both were enjoying now?

Asked by jothi kumar in Agony Aunt at 5:40 PM on March 16, 2009

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I can say that you and your sister,both have Animal Instincts,since it is the rule of animals having sex with mother,father,son,daughter,brother and sister.They do not know what is " Papa" and what is " Punnya " and what is the purity of relations. It is never a " Sath Karma ",having sex with sisters and brothers and it shows the Degeration of Human Culture in the Society in which you and your sister live. I know one incident some time very long back in Punjab in which a Military Officer (Punjabi ) shot and killed both, his son and daughter who were having sex in their bed room. What else he can do ? And same way think about it if it happens in your case too.
Now,you must realise it is illigal to have sex with sister,or sister having sex with brother.It is a "Devilish Act ". What will be the position of you both in the society if the people come to know about it or when she gets pregnant from you ? So, you both must feel ashamed of all the past acts and be converted to normal human beings. May God excuse you both for all the wrong things you did till now and stop doing such inhuman act any more.Life is NOT for such enjoyments.

Answered at 9:30 PM on March 17, 2009

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Have politicians done enough for india?

Asked Anonymously in Miscellaneous at 12:27 PM on January 31, 2009

SUKUMARAN's Answer

Yes,majority of them done enough damages to our country by way of amazing wealth for their party and for their own person through corrupt practice,and damaged the "face " of India through their vulgarised act, all at the cost of we the taxpayers.They have swallowed all our tax money causing price hike in our regular commodities.These thousands of crores of money could have made our poor people's life livable.This is the result of our Demo(n)crazy and is the present condition our Rich Country.

Answered at 7:40 PM on January 31, 2009

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What is the Best Exercise for Weight Loss? ?

Asked by kalim in Personal Health at 9:39 AM on January 31, 2009

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Cross country run for an hour daily with fat free food will surely reduce your weght like anything.
Running is the best exercise to reduce body weight.

Answered at 9:45 PM on January 31, 2009

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Give me healthy diet chart?

Asked by smita singh in Personal Health at 4:54 PM on January 31, 2009

SUKUMARAN's Answer

For a healthy normal adult a minimum of 2500 Calories per day is required.( For those who physically work hard required up to 3000 calories per day )
Time............................... ..............................Menu for 2500 calories.
1) 6 am................................. ........Tea / coffee / milk with sugar 100 ml
2) 8-9 am (Breakfast )...........Idli / dosa / appam 5 nos or puttu one kutti /Uppuma 2 ciups,samba /
kadala curry-3/4 cup,egg-1,tea / coffee / milk 100 ml with sugar.
3) 10-11am ............................Lime juice / butter milk /veg.soup -1 cup / cooked veg / salads. 2 cups
4) 12-1 pm (Lunch ).............Cookrd rice / noodles-2 cups or chappathi / dosa 4 nos,sambar /
dhal 3/4 cup,fish / chicken 2 pieces(100 gms) or soya / pulse 100 gms
cooked veg-2 cups,salad -1 cup,rassam / butter milk 1 cup,raitha / curd
pachadi-100ml and one banana or 100 gms of any fruits.
5) 4-5 pm( tea time )..........Tea / coffee with 100 ml milk one cup,biscuit-3 / bread 2 slice
6) 8-9 pm ( dinner )...........Cooked rice / noodles -2 cups, or chappathi / dossa=-3 nos,fish / chicken
100 gms or soya / pulse-100 gms,cooked veg-2 cups,salad -1 cup and
fruits 100 gns or one banana.
7) 10 pm (Bed time )....... Warm.Milk ( diluted )with sugar 100 ml.
NB:- 5 to 6 tsp of oil per day can have.

Answered at 8:46 PM on January 31, 2009

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My sister's 9-year-old daughter is already starting to develop breasts. Is this normal? ?

Asked by MALA VATHY in Personal Health at 2:01 PM on January 31, 2009

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It more or less depends on the constitution of mother's body.
From the age of 9 up to 12 (puberty) is the Early-Adolescence period.During this period the women harmons start getting "ignition " and due to this there will marked body development which starts in a fast rate.By the time she reaches her puberty at 12 or 13 years most of the sex organs reaches its normal growth.The development of breast is an important part in it. So,it is only natural and you need not to get worried.( Do not compare her with other girls at this age.Different girls have different constitutional featers.Because it depends on the general health of the girl )
But one thing now you must take care of her. That is her dress. Avoid all tight dress during this period and you must have a 3rd eye on her from now onwards.

Answered at 9:08 PM on January 31, 2009

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