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My marriage has been fixed but lately I came to know that the person I am to marry is an alcoholic. Please tell me what should I do.

Asked by Nishikata in Agony Aunt at 9:07 PM on April 18, 2008

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Being alcoholic is nbot a sin, but instead you should see his other posivie qualities and also try to prove that you can take him out of this habit. Which would be quite appreciable.

Answered at 8:59 PM on April 30, 2008

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What if I do not marry at all? Will there be any problem? Please elaborate.

Asked by Iqbal khan in Agony Aunt at 9:08 PM on April 18, 2008

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There is not harm in not marrying but since it is a natural and hormonal requirement of a man to search for a woman and live with her sharing all the responsibilities of life

Answered at 8:58 PM on April 30, 2008

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How To Deal With A Friend Who Makes Your Feel Inferior?

Asked by Love hurts in Agony Aunt at 1:35 AM on April 19, 2008

raj surya's Answer

You dont have to deal with such a friend, instead you need to tkae it as a challenge, in your life.

Answered at 8:57 PM on April 30, 2008

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I feel women are still far inferior to men. if this be true to the fact what will make them equal? Pls clear ma doubt...

Asked by Enisha Rao in Agony Aunt at 8:23 PM on April 21, 2008

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See you are what you think to be, so if you feel inferior , you start feeling yourself inferior to youself.Your thought process shall decide to it.

Answered at 8:51 PM on April 30, 2008

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I m in a peculiar prblm. I am married but of late have found myself attracted towards a man I don know much about. not sexual attraction. what is this? pls

Asked by Bimoni in Agony Aunt at 7:58 PM on April 21, 2008

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See beauty is made to be admired, also this tendency of attraction is human,you may have an image of a type of personality in your childhood whom you might have considered as your role model, and the same is being reflected in practical life.

Answered at 8:56 PM on April 30, 2008

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Is it natural that as people become older thy become more orthodox? My father is like this. Earlier he was open to sleeveless wearing, now objects. why is this?

Asked by Enisha Rao in Agony Aunt at 8:15 PM on April 21, 2008

raj surya's Answer

See it is said people as they grow older and older they tend to behave like a child.So objection to your wearing sleeveless is routine phenomenon.And moreover we are directed to negative thinking first and also our atmosphere also counts a lot in this matter.

Answered at 8:54 PM on April 30, 2008

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When I happen to look at women /girls my eyes strike at the breast line unknowingly. why this is so? I feel bad.

Asked by Himant Kaka in Agony Aunt at 2:12 PM on April 23, 2008

raj surya's Answer

It is a natural and general tendency of a human being to get attracted towards the opposite sex and you feel guilty of what you do, that is why you feel bad.You need not take those things so seriously.

Answered at 8:46 PM on April 30, 2008

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I often feel lonely and low as I do not feel like doing anything. Is it normal or I have some problem, please help.

Asked by Himant Kaka in Agony Aunt at 1:45 PM on April 23, 2008

raj surya's Answer

See it depends upon the situation of one self. You should make a habit of reading positive mentality books.They are the best friend of yours.

Answered at 8:47 PM on April 30, 2008

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I'm very confused by a girl who seems to like me yet has a boyfriend. She does not know that I am aware that she has a boyfriend. I 'm confused whether to ask

Asked by mahesh jha in Agony Aunt at 1:18 PM on April 22, 2008

raj surya's Answer

Every one has a right to live his own's life the way he/she wants to.You should do what your heart says.Why be confused?

Answered at 8:50 PM on April 30, 2008

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if one married person is keeping online relation with a girl through chatting,will it be counted as cheating with his wife?

Asked by mahesh jha in Agony Aunt at 1:21 PM on April 22, 2008

raj surya's Answer

See nothing in this world is right or wrong only the attitude counts, your perspective of seeing the things counts.Your nature/ type of relation counts.

Answered at 8:49 PM on April 30, 2008

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