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in Agony Aunt, Self Development & Divorce

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Which relation is most precious.... mother-sun, wife-husband or brother-sister..

Asked by Jay Deep in Agony Aunt at 2:37 PM on September 27, 2008

mitali joshi's Answer

Husband wife.....without any doubt
'coz you will be together till death and you are giving evrything for him/her ,you change yourself for him/her ,you leave your parents ,and a lot of things.....this is the most demanding relation and people do it sometimes with love ,somtimes unwillingly.
But then parents do evrything for their children without any expectations ,that is the most selfless realtion in which you get evrything without even asking
then realtion between brother sister is fine upto some extent but they will be busy in their own lives and with there spouses so.....

Answered at 12:24 PM on September 28, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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How many of you prefer to have fearless `eye to eye` conversation with the people around us...?

Asked by Jay Deep in Agony Aunt at 2:38 PM on September 27, 2008

mitali joshi's Answer

I think an eye to eye contact is required for effective communication ,it facilitates better understanding and can help to see and check if the other person is interested ..... he/she is listening?
then if you are right at your place ,there is no fear.
we should only fear from God ,noone else.

Answered at 12:16 PM on September 28, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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Why do people think being almost 30 yrs of age female and unmarried is a problem?

Asked by Sarita . in Agony Aunt at 10:13 AM on August 30, 2008

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If you are working or studying , I don't think it matters that mush but yes if you are sitting idle at homw waiting to get married then offcourse it is a problem.
kali dimag shaitan ka ghar hota hai.

Answered at 4:16 PM on August 30, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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My husband doesn't listen to my pleas I make to send me to my mom's house for a week. Shall I ring up dad or just walk out?

Asked by Anuradha in Marriage at 6:00 PM on August 29, 2008

mitali joshi's Answer

he is not sending u b'coz if u will go , who will do all the household work and his mother will never accept this as she want u to get up at 5 and dont go to sleep even after 11:30 ( u said the time) ,the other reason could be that you can tell this to your parents which they don't want.
When they are so smart and calculative and noone is thinking abt YOU , why u don't think about urself.
You also do what you want and which is correct and has to be done for ur betterment ,for your mental and physical well being , for the futurte of ur children .

Answered at 9:27 PM on August 29, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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I feel I am treated like a slave- Cook for a big family and forced sex at nite. How will my kids study, if he doesn't earn? He doesn't bother.

Asked by Anuradha in Marriage at 5:52 PM on August 29, 2008

mitali joshi's Answer

Hi Anuradha I read all of ur questions i really felt ur pain
dear anuradha this is not life zindagi bahut khoobsurat hai and this marriage has made ur life a hell ,sorry for using this word.You are just 28 and mother of two ,fine but when he dont work and dont give u time ,he shud nt force himself on u.
He is using u just like a sleeping pill , do u understand that ,don't u respect urself and I think he onlky want a woman on bed let it be anyone ,does he has any feelings otherwise its just like animals..i m sory for being rude
then he dont earn have u thought abt ur future.I dont think u will be able to come out of a solution so easily but yes there is a solution to every problem.
Mother in law 's behavior is cheap i think its been minimum 2 years so u also have a right on ur husband and the house.
As a humnabeing ,you have full right to privacy and live your life happily.
itna kuch seh rahi ho ,aise aap physically aur mentally bimar ho jayengi.Please talk to someone who is close to u and can understand u ......I think you are full of pain and agony ....speak it out first and dont worry have faith in God you will be happy soon my wishes are with you

Answered at 9:18 PM on August 29, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?

Asked by Rahul in Divorce at 12:25 PM on July 24, 2008

mitali joshi's Answer

misunderstandings created by close g\family members (respective inlaws) whose influence is more than the love between two of u

Answered at 12:38 PM on July 26, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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Is divorce, in its truest sense a divorce, is there any divorce of mind and soul involved, or is it only the seperation of body?

Asked by regent in Divorce at 6:32 PM on July 29, 2008

mitali joshi's Answer

i think if u are attached to him/her ,you shud nt go for divorce.Either it shud be from heart otherwise there is no point in taking or signing the papers when you are still in love with each other.

Answered at 8:11 PM on August 01, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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WHY DOES TRUE LOVE ALWAYS GETS A PROBLEM ??? :( LIKE LAILA MAJNU, HEER RANJHA, SONI MAHIWAL :-(

Asked by MuJJu JDB in Love & Romance at 11:46 AM on July 28, 2008

mitali joshi's Answer

it happens when you love a wrong person truly ,the choice goes wrong and we dont recognize it and continue to love that wrong person who dont deserve our love b'coz he/she is never going to value it

Answered at 11:52 AM on July 28, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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Is there any difference between a broken home and a broken marriage?

Asked by kashyap in Marriage at 5:14 AM on August 14, 2008

mitali joshi's Answer

when husband and wife are living separately but they still share a bond n are nt still divorce ,the home is said to be broken not the marriage.
When they are divorced ,the home as well as marriage come to an end.

Answered at 1:13 PM on August 14, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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Why do some ladies insist on going back to the same guy that mentally and physically abuse them?

Asked by Manav Sharma in Abuse at 11:35 AM on July 30, 2008

mitali joshi's Answer

when you are in love you cannot see his deformities you just love him n want to be with him and that guy takes advantage of the girl's pure love even after knowing evrything she just cannot divert her mind she cant stop loving him she may be ready to risk her life her future for him BUT noone will understand coz this is madness
u know u r wrong but u r doing it coz u have no control over your heart over your feelings u just cant control ur emotions u cant change the fact how u feel for him n if he dont understand this he is the biggest fool of this world he is not only abusing her but he himself id abandoning of a beautiful world

Answered at 1:45 PM on August 09, 2008 | Read Comments [0]

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