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Friendship is different from all other human relationships..how is it different?

Asked by Tingtong in Self Development at 11:01 AM on June 03, 2008

LATIKA SAIN's Answer

Friendship is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more humans. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis. Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors.
In a comparison of personal relationships, friendship is considered to be closer than association, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and associations.

Answered at 6:08 PM on June 03, 2008

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Please suggest a name for my little baby boy.......... starts with A or M

Asked by amit kumar in Parenting at 6:47 PM on June 02, 2008

LATIKA SAIN's Answer

Abeer - Color
Abhay - Fearless
Abhinav - Novel
Abhiraj - Fearless King
Akash - The sky
Akhil - Complete
Akhilesh - Lord of all

Akshath - Indestructible
Akshay - Indestructible
Akshit - Permanent
Mukul - Bud
Mukunda - Lord Krishna

Answered at 6:00 PM on June 03, 2008

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I already hv a BF but i feel attracted to a boy,he looks at me all the time whenever i see him,Is it normal to get attracted to the oppost sex or smthng is wrng

Asked by Miss U in Agony Aunt at 3:01 AM on June 02, 2008

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Love can happen anywhere and with anyone. It is a natural process and feeling of attraction comes when one achieves adolescence.Your feeling for someone is not wrong.

Answered at 5:22 PM on June 03, 2008

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If a married man tease a girl, is it acceptable? explain.

Asked by MRIDUL BORA in Agony Aunt at 11:36 PM on June 01, 2008

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Teasing a girl itself is an offence. When it is done by a married man then he should be given a hard punishment so that others will learn a lesson from it and dare not commit such a crime.

Answered at 5:36 PM on June 03, 2008

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are men more emotional than women? .............build a voice ........

Asked by P Kumar in Agony Aunt at 2:30 PM on June 03, 2008

LATIKA SAIN's Answer

I am not sure if it would be correct to say women are more emotional, but they are better in expressing their feelings. A man even though more emotional might not be able to express it as freely .
generally speaking... women are seen as more emotional ones... human beings are full of emotions. both men and women have emotions.. same types of emotions but they are expressed in different ways. Women tend to be more expressive and less controlling of their emotions whereas men tend to bottle up their emotions... which generally tends to turn into other intense forms of emotions eg. anger, depression to name a few. anger is also an emotion.

Answered at 5:29 PM on June 03, 2008

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hiiiiiii guies , does TRUE LOVE , exist in this world...............?????????? ???

Asked by Bhavar in Love & Romance at 9:43 AM on June 03, 2008

LATIKA SAIN's Answer

In most cases we think: this is true love, when in fact it’s not. But than if this ain’t love than what it is? There are plenty of things that we confuse with love.It could be just the basic instinct. The feelings can be passionate and crazy, but in fact both people may want only sex. And after it all the misunderstanding starts, and once infatuated lovers will find out that they have nothing in common and sometimes they don’t even know what to talk with each other.

True love means understanding. One trusts another more than him/herself and feels ready to satisfy every little need of a partner. Two people don’t stop for a second looking into each other eyes.
It’s said that two persons truly in love aren’t looking at each other but in the one direction. And this is rather reasonable because they don’t say nothing “this is yours and this is mine” and share everything: friends, enemies, interests, problems and etc. One has his/her own identity but sees him/herself only as a part of the other. Still real love is not a relationship of property. If you really love someone you may say “I belong you” but always be ready to let go if it makes the person you love happy.

Answered at 5:43 PM on June 03, 2008

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SHOULD LIV TOGETHER RELATIONSHIP BE ACCEPTED IN INDIA?

Asked by ZINNIYA :-) in Counselling at 8:04 AM on May 29, 2008

LATIKA SAIN's Answer

Carried away with the urge of success, these youngsters grab every possible opportunity lying in their domain. Often they are taken away from home to get successful. Staying away from home it is now that they feel alone. This solitude is not blissful for them as everybody can not be a Wordsworth. It is during this lone period, that they need a support. These might be mental, emotional or even physical and that is how one lands into a live-in relationship. Things generally begin normally like sharing the flat or sharing the stress or pleasure. Gradually the live-in partners get intimate and the physical urge gets better of them. And let’s accept that both of them enjoy this freedom. There are no obligations, no restrictions in these relations, simply because live-in itself, is an escape from restrictions.

Things start going wrong when the partners or one of them becomes possessive or the lady conceives a child. The problem is because they are not ready to take up the responsibility and let’s face it marriage can not be a solution in these cases. Marriages in these circumstances are no more than a compromise, a deal. Moreover, marriages are all about devotion and sacrifice, and the people who are not used to sharing things cannot devote or sacrifice things for each other.

Answered at 5:53 PM on May 31, 2008

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My wife is very arrogant on me and my family peoples, eventhough we r in seperate house, her parents also support her and not compromise to talk with us. what t

Asked by paddy A in Family at 3:11 PM on May 29, 2008

LATIKA SAIN's Answer

If every thing has failed then you have to be strict with her and stop the interference from her parents side and tell her clearly if she does not behave properly with his parents then even you will be harsh with her parents.

Answered at 5:56 PM on May 31, 2008

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what is the way to get out from depression????

Asked by prathamesh in Depression at 1:58 PM on June 02, 2008

LATIKA SAIN's Answer

Managing your mind is a difficult task especially when you are not aware of its activities. You have to periodically reassure yourself and guide your mind in certain cheerful and positive pathways so that it does not get into depressed state. Mind can callously go into depressed state as a reaction to or reflection of uneasy and unpleasant happenings around you.
Depression may be temporary of short duration that passes off unnoticed or may be nagging longer duration. Enduring depression may be your own creation as result of brooding over whatever sour thing that happened around you and deeply affected you. Prolonged depression decreases your energy level and reduces your potential to achieve optimum results.
First you have to realize that you are depressed and recognize the necessity to save yourself by coming out of it. If you simply sympathizes with your self apologetically, or silently suffer or masochistically enjoy your depression, it is more likely you would not come out it easily. You may lead yourself to further unpleasant complications.
Next step would be to change your routine style of functioning for sometimes at least so that you shall forget the images that bruises your mind and thereby get rid of depression. Change of place or environment may helpful in many cases. Or change the usual style of attending to your work or alter the timings for a few days till you invigorate yourself. Mix up with pleasant and selfless friends. Try to enjoy some harmless jokes with your friends.
Volunteer yourself for some selfless social service activities and engage in it wholeheartedly.
Try to be like an innocent child that enjoys pondering over various small and minor things. Possibly because of your own depression you have forgotten to see around yourself or totally oblivious of the beauty and charm of the nature around you. Take pleasure in observing minor aspects of nature intently and unassumingly like a small child. Bathe in the healing powers of the fresh air, the greenery, the expansiveness, the warmth and the pleasantness the nature bestows upon you.

Answered at 5:12 PM on June 03, 2008

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Why people gives up studying after they start earning money?

Asked by MRIDUL BORA in Agony Aunt at 11:33 PM on June 01, 2008

LATIKA SAIN's Answer

when a person starts earning, he gets very less time for studies. So, may be lack of time, lack of concentration and interest are some of the reasons for these.

Answered at 5:17 PM on June 03, 2008

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