Home Ask Question Answer Questions My Q&A Categories Ask the experts Expert leader board

H.A's Questions & Answers

in Puja & Rituals , Family& Self Development

404

Rank

Total Points: 1213

Answers Given: 191

Questions Asked: 0

Best Answers: 8

I am doing my level best to get the trust of my life partner and i love her so much but she don't think so what should i do?

Asked Anonymously in Marriage at 4:29 PM on April 06, 2009

H.A's Answer

Dear friend there are many ways to deal with this.
One way is to stop giving as much attention to her as you are giving at present, it may have gone to her head, or you must have been caught looking at other girls. either way girls will behave the way you are experiencing now.
just live your life as normally as you can talk general things at home to her (girls like to gossip with men as they are tired doing so with other women actually they are trying to show you how much they know. So be a good listener talk less about yourself and learn more about them.
take interest in her interests help her with it. talk to her friends or her relatives to find out.
stop giving her more than required interest, by talking general things and not what you want, by asking her what you want you are giving away your secrets and then they will control you through them at least most of them.
try being more independent with respect to you daily needs,
let her come to you for sex but keep the invitation open (like make passes gestures stretch out looking at her when she is not really looking.
rouse her with naughty pictures or a film at any theater.
just be romantic by taking her out to meet your friends family.
praise her in front of your friends family and especially her friends. she will just start to love you.

Answered at 9:18 PM on April 06, 2009

Read all answers

Where will i come to know that whether a person is married or not ?

Asked by neel dandeka in Marriage at 11:18 AM on April 06, 2009

H.A's Answer

Hello! neel dandeka,
Just watch him closely, if he is looking at your face all the time he is not married.
if he is looking at your body parts then he may be married but starved of sex.
If he is only interested in your conversation then he is married and satisfied
if he is talking and does not listen to you then he is surely married to a dominant wife who does not let him talk so the first women he meets and is listening to him he will pour out his stock of things he would like his wife to listen.
if he tries to grab you or tries to touch then he is married and starved of sex.
THIS MUCH YOU CAN SAY OF MEN
but why not try the easy way JUST ASK HIM.

Answered at 8:58 PM on April 06, 2009

Read all answers

Why is coconut important in puja ?

Asked Anonymously in Puja & Rituals at 1:36 PM on March 28, 2009

H.A's Answer

No material used in puja is as important than the feelings (Bhavana). All of them is only to develop a feeling. Most of us feel that the more we spend on the puja is what is important. or the size of the puja material is important rather than in the interest we develop during the puja.

Answered at 10:39 PM on March 28, 2009

Read all answers

Kam kharche ki shadi kaisi hoti hai?

Asked by rini raina in Marriage at 4:08 PM on April 06, 2009

H.A's Answer

Hello! Rini, Yeh chacha Ka manna hai ki achi nahi hota hai, shadi zindhagi ki ak bada kisa hai zindhagi meh ak hi bar hota hai! ho sakta hai ki jithani kam karch kar re gi uthna hi jaldhi us ka maja chala jayega shadhi ka mahetwa be cum hojayega,

Answered at 8:48 PM on April 06, 2009

Read all answers

My breast is 32 want to improve to 36 wht to do hmy husband want to leave me?

Asked Anonymously in Marriage at 6:06 PM on April 06, 2009

H.A's Answer

Dear sister, First of all Change your thoughts to "My husband will not leave me" I say this because we humans have the power to create any situation, we start with feelings, attach our mind and consciousness to it , this way we make energy flow into it ( the feelings) we then act or do things with our sense organs to make us experience the feelings through the feedback to the mind from the sense organs. THIS IS HOW WE CREATE things or situations. Now thinking that your husband will not leave you will manifest only if you start to continously think feel and act it.
Now for your information the size of the breasts does not matter in sex or marriage it is sharing the moment to give pleasure to each other (IT IS GIVING ).
Now this is my advice Stop thinking about the other girl even if it is true. Just feel happy that you are married to a man that is liked by many, you feel proud of it (just within yourself do not go telling about it to everyone.
To attract you man back to you First, Put a smile on your face it makes it better with out any cost. dress up like the other women (only at home, you don't want to attract other boys). second Don't pester him about things Let him tell them to you, Just be a good listener. don't advice him about anything, Just be there for him as if nothing has happened, If these things don't work then tell his parents !

Answered at 8:40 PM on April 06, 2009

Read all answers

Did u feel and believe in god.In your life anything happened that you feel god doing it for you(like chamtkar)please share with me?

Asked by Abhi Bansal in Puja & Rituals at 2:00 PM on March 28, 2009

H.A's Answer

Hello! Bansal, Every breath we take is a miracle, (Chamtkar) It Takes place automatically, the coordination of so many organs of our body, performed by the brain under the guidance of the consciousness, the part of god in all of us. why look for god out side us when a part of god is in ll of us?

Answered at 10:34 PM on March 28, 2009

Read all answers

Dear doc, is ther any treatment on sex addiction sex fantacy in pune .i know i am not a criminal,thou people r severly effected by this?

Asked by sugha ghasu in Mental Health at 6:17 PM on January 19, 2009

H.A's Answer

Hello! friend Sugha ghasu,

There is nothing wrong with you, it is not criminal to have sex, Every living being does it. You are un necessarily taxing yourself thinking of it in this manner. The natural truth is that you will overcome it, and have a regular normal life, these things are seeming so as you must be new to it and like it very much.

the first step to your normal life is already started as soon as you identified that your interest in this matter is more than necessary. the next step will be that you will develop an interest in some thing that is socially accepted.

Don't feel bad about this like of your's it is natural.
I can suggest an alternate like that you will like, it will be much better than the present like. the joy you can get will be more satisfying and beneficial to the body mind and soul. IT IS DEVELOPING AN INTEREST IN SPIRITUALITY. IF YOU NEED HELP IN THIS YOU CAN RAD MY BLOGS HERE IN IBIBO OR REDIFF OR MYSPACE OR YAHOO 360.

Answered at 10:18 PM on January 24, 2009

Read answer

If both husband and wife are egoistic how they manage?

Asked Anonymously in Family at 11:16 PM on March 24, 2009

H.A's Answer

Both are egoistic about their feelings about their qualities like name, possessions, wealth or earnings friends etc then the clash will be limited only to the house or when they are alone together. this is because they will be displaying this with others also so, in a way they must be proud of each other in front of others! This is the catch try to find out if this is true, then automatically the feelings and relationship will become normal as soon as you know the feelings he has about you. Be assured that you both don't want to loose each other. The feeling or need to dominate each other is limited to mistakes performed and found out by the other. So limit these then one of you will run out of points to pick on the other life will become pleasant. and love for each other will be expressed more frequently, Kindly note that love the foundation of living with the other in a family is GIVING NOT TAKING, because the sense of feeling that is experienced when we are able to satisfy others is more dominating in all the three levels of existence, Body, Mind& spirit. The egoistic domination in body and mind is very less satisfying than that experienced in the spiritual level. TO experience this just keep quite and listen to the other and experience the bliss of being able to satisfy their desire just once sincerely, you will want to experience this more and more, kindly note you are not becoming small by just keeping quite, you are becoming larger in heart so you will become happier.

Answered at 10:27 PM on March 28, 2009

Read all answers

I m tired of my sister she is just a hell on my head.i can't tolerate her for more than a second.what shall i do with that which ?

Asked by princy shiva in Family at 9:07 PM on March 26, 2009

H.A's Answer

Hello! shiva, Tolerance is a quality which does not depend on anyone else, how ever they behave, it depends only on what we want our mind to be associated with. consciousness which enables the experience of things can only be attached to one thing at any given time, this is the blessing that enables us to concentrate only on that thing and not on what we don't like. This is the art taught to us in spiritual meditation. mastery of this enables us to enjoy only that which we like with out distraction of everything around us.
Your sister is only wanting your attention and a kind word which she cannot get from others,

Answered at 10:03 PM on March 28, 2009

Read all answers

How can we control early ejaculation during sex in yoga therapy?

Asked Anonymously in Sexual Health at 9:07 PM on January 23, 2009

H.A's Answer

Early ejaculation may be due to the delay in the act as your state of arousal may be very high or very excited,

reduce the fore play ( things you do before the real act) this can help.

but the main reason can be the state of mind becoming engrossed with the final moment , kindly note that there is even more pleasure in making your partner climax together with yours as the feeling of being able to give joy to her will be very satisfying because the ego will soar to the heights of bliss , this feeling will be gratifying for longer duration than normal joy.

some tricks that can work delay the ejaculation and prolong your act are
reduce fore play
let your partner come to you and avoid abstaining from the act for too long.
breaking a stroke in between consciously will help the mind to be distracte
counting back wards from 100 consciously can also help
asking your partner to pinch the head with her fingers can delay ejaculation
changing position in the middle of the act.

Answered at 10:38 PM on January 24, 2009

Read all answers