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I'm having a problem at my home & i think it is bcoz somebody have evil eye on my house(specially my mom she is behaving strangely these days tell me solution

Asked Anonymously in Family at 8:27 PM on August 30, 2009

H.A's Answer

Letting this thought occupy your thought continuously Will only let you experience it.
I suggest you forget the entire thought and behave as if nothing is done by anyone. Or think only of those things that are going on right in your life. evil eye can only be effective for one thing at any given time so all other things should be running smoothly!!!!!...
letting something going wrong occupy your mind will make you mis all the thingsthat are going on right.
It is like this To experience happiness continuously you should thing of happiness continuously ! even one thought of any thing else will destroy the feeling of happiness!
gradually

Answered at 8:46 PM on September 02, 2009

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How to be optimistic in life?

Asked by harish sista in Family at 1:25 PM on September 01, 2009

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Understanding that everything in this world has its opposite and you only have to look at the other side of things to experience it, you will accept every situation with even feelings, thus you will be optimistic always. you will look forward to every new thing !

Answered at 8:38 PM on September 02, 2009

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How can i enjoy with my parents?

Asked by harish sista in Family at 1:28 PM on September 01, 2009

H.A's Answer

Desire dear harish is the cause of all feelings ! Yes it has a dual counter part known by us as its opposite. Everything in this time frame has its dual part, we experience only that which we choose or like.
Every relationship or interaction produces both the dual parts, attach our consciousness to one and we experience it. This is the way free will the gift of consciousness Works.
Enjoying with parents Is very easy. there are any ways but the secret is to keep them happy. This is true for all interaction with all living beings.
To keep them happy Do what they like most Always!
They like to be respected.
They like being wanted by their children.
They like to see their children happy and successful.
They like to be reminded that you love them and are thankful to them for giving you this body, so that you could experience and confirm your existence.
I feel if you can do these small things you will enjoy life with your parents.

Answered at 8:33 PM on September 02, 2009

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Why we are as we are?

Asked by Boby Kalra in Spirituality & Faith at 11:51 PM on May 13, 2009

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Desire to experience is the main reason we take birth,
this desire needs many things available on earth to become true, these things are collected in the form of energy, information, knowledge in the three states of existence these give the type of body, mind and spirit that can enable this desire, most often we forget the main desire and get entangled in other desires we make during the course of living and create a life that we experience.

Answered at 9:40 PM on May 20, 2009

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No privacy in my home always sorrounded by mother in law , father in law and younger sister in law..not able to spend time with my husband.what to do?

Asked Anonymously in Family at 12:54 PM on May 09, 2009

H.A's Answer

There are many things you can do 1) Plan a family visit to you relatives with entire family and then tell your husband to take you back home under some pretext. 2) during some religious function tell your family to visit any distant temple and report that you have periods just tell your husband the truth. 3) buy all the family members a movie ticket in the last minute say you wont go tell the husband the real reason. Now you must be able to make some or other excuse just like the above , there are many such thngs you will get the opportunity, this will not be wrong so you don't need to feel guilty.

Answered at 10:02 PM on May 12, 2009

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How to bring balance between spritual life & married life?

Asked Anonymously in Family at 2:03 AM on May 10, 2009

H.A's Answer

Hello! friend, These two , spiritual and married life are very different, but you can earn spiritual bliss by doing 16 karmas listed in very hindu panchanga being a married member of our society.
The family persons or house holders are held in very high respect by all Pitris (forefathers or ancestors ), All Gods, and living religious persons as house holders are the means of sustainment for them the nithya karmas of these house holders hold very high punya in this life as well as the next. so there is a balance of karma. To say here that every act of living is performing seven fire sacrifice will not be wrong. for example eating food religiously is performing jatara agni homa. Performing sexual act as per the religious texts is performing homa to Kama agni, so on and so forth, thus just living will constitute spiritual merit, all these acts when done selfishly just to satisfy our desire will convert these same acts to earn demerit. Human beings thus just living a normal married life religiously without any special spiritual practice will balance the karma and earn blissful punya. on the other hand just doing spiritual practice for self up-liftment can earn demerit but the same done with up liftment of people and ancestors will earn good merit. this will balance the spiritual person.

Answered at 9:51 PM on May 12, 2009

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i am from hindu family .i love my cousin (father sister ki ladki). she also loves me alot we want to marry? ?

Asked Anonymously in Family at 12:00 PM on April 27, 2009

H.A's Answer

Marriage in hindu family is designed by our elders to ensure healthy human beings are born with out genetic defect, one of the main concern that can arise when marriage is repeatedly conducted between members of the same family, this was ensured in the past by restricting particular "gothras" (linage ) from getting married to each other, there are other reasons also, but we will not go through them now as the present issue to seek marriage between two individuals is the real issue,
Kindly consult your family guru for guidance in this matter, As it can affect the lives of the childern you both will bring into this society.

Answered at 9:15 PM on April 28, 2009

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Why we always blame girls if love fails ? ?

Asked by Raj R in Love & Romance at 5:55 PM on April 28, 2009

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All the girls are Mother divines character which is inculcated in their soul, the main qualities are tolerance, forgiveness, divine love for everything as they know that everything is god, the supreme being know to man!
So if the love fails then the man must have really done something unethical in her understanding of ways of life on earth.
As man does not have the courage to own his mistake, he tries to satisfy his ego by blaming the girl.
This was the prevailing situation in the day very long ago, Now a days we cannot apply this, as things have changed and the qualities of mother divine in girls is deteriorating so we can conclude that both are to be blamed if love fails.

Answered at 9:34 PM on April 28, 2009

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HOW I IMPROVE MY STUDY IN MATHMATICS?

Asked by Mukesh in Exams, Education & References at 8:31 PM on April 28, 2009

H.A's Answer

Hello! Mukesh,
Improving in studying is very simple, We humans repeat things we like, Repeating things we develop a strong cycle or habit, when we repeat thing so many times we make it easy to perform the same thing when ever we are required to do it.
so the first step to improve is to develop a liking to maths, There are many ways to do this, Compare it with any game or routine you like, just find the similarities, Or the other way is to use maths in the event you like the most, Maths is very useful and everything we do can be related to maths,

Answered at 9:48 PM on April 28, 2009

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How a human being is a free from society?

Asked by Dillip Kumar in Family at 5:08 PM on April 26, 2009

H.A's Answer

Hello! Dillip Kumar, Every human being has three aspects of living, Physical, Mental and spiritual, Most people living in the society attach greater importance to physical and mental and a very few deal or give more importance to spiritual, it is very difficult for people to be free from society as we need to interact with other to carry on living just like others do. In the spiritual aspect it is possible to become free from society to a great extent in the initial stages and in the final stage we become completely free the method used is detachment from the interaction using sense organs It is called "Pratyahara" one of the stages of astanga yoga (8 step sequence of attaining supreme bliss Turiya). you will find some ways to practice this by reading my blogs.

Answered at 8:54 PM on April 28, 2009

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