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kya bina marrige kiye ... comfortable oldage aa sakti hai?

Asked by yogesh in Family at 10:51 AM on March 27, 2008

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Dear friend there is no rule that says that being married can give comfortable old age. everythung depends on what we did in our previous life. Yes staying alone will definitely not be easy, so find a friend not necessary that the friend is a women and sex being out of the question any one will do. thus both can take care of eachother, we can also adopt a child and take care of his growing needs, there are in fact many ways, having a wife is not the only way to spend the life with.

Answered at 3:50 PM on March 30, 2008

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my friend is in trouble she want to stop her hubby's drink for better life any best option , plz frnd she is in big trouble

Asked by saru renju in Family at 7:17 PM on March 27, 2008

H.A's Answer

One way to help your friend is by changing the undrestanding of things of life differently, habits are changed gradually, and this cannot be done by allowing him to drink outside the house, so make it possible to change it from outside drinking to with in the observation of the partner (wife) succeed in this and half the problem is solved. Now start conversation which he likes and the important thing is to get him involved, so choose the topics he likes, there is one more advantage of bringing him home he would not like to teach drinking to his children! thus use this excuse to delay the starting till they are asleep. this along with the conservation will gradually reduce the amount he will drink, this is becasue if you can make him talk then he cannot drink as well. use the famous trick in the world praise him when he says something nice or just make up an understanding that changes things to nice. when he recognizes his worth and contribution he may change.

Answered at 3:43 PM on March 30, 2008

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How to over come "erotic thinking mind". Effects & Sideeffects of "Masterbation"(spell mistake)

Asked by Nagesh Patil in Family at 6:07 PM on March 14, 2008

H.A's Answer

Dear friend Nagesh patil, everything in this manifested world is defined by us human beings, limited to our own understanding, it is this thing that makes the understanding of the same thing different to everyone of us. this definitions makes us understand things as right and wrong, this also creates duality. one thig is for sure for anything to exist there has to exist its opposite. coming to this understanding there is nothing erotic or not erotic, everything is in the mind. Thus one way to not feel guilty of our thinking is to be above duality. there are no side effects of the act you have misseplt. as long as it is within limits of your health. To put your mind to rest about these things there is no difference in the actual act done as people think normal or your misspelt act, the only thing is the guilt attached to it due to your feeling developed due to the understanding of all others included. normal sexual act carried to its limits also has tha same effect of overdoing it by oneself or with someones help. just overcome the guilt and inhibition to do it with the normal partner.

Answered at 6:28 PM on March 16, 2008

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I have to perform Mahamrityunjay Jaap for my beloved.She is not in a condition to do the jaap.Please tell me the procedure.I would be highly thankful to you.

Asked by Gaurav Kumar in Puja & Rituals at 2:45 PM on March 14, 2008

H.A's Answer

Hello! friend Gaurav Kumar, This is a very powerful mantra to ward off all evil and death like fear. You have to get up before sunrise, take your bath wearing a thin towel, as bathing naked is not the way to take bath. rinse yourself dry and wear fresh cloths. daily before 8:00 O'clock sit in the prayer room facing north and sincerly think of the problem you and your beloved are facing and then with your whole heart think of first Ganesh, sitting on the lap of mother parvathi with lord shiva by the side of Ma parvathi is such a fashion that lord Ganesh is in between. Now bow to them and ask for your desire, and then start the japa, start with as many you can do with out feeling that you must do 108 from the begining. slowly increase the number to 108. Try to finish it before 8:00 am. To help you in this endevour I will also do so on your behalf. Lest assured your beloved should see better days from now onwards. just let go of the fear come what may the entire power of the lord is with you.

Answered at 6:52 PM on March 16, 2008

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have you opened his chakras in kundalini or know any body who opened it, Please leave your telephone no so that I can get information.

Asked by Prashant in Puja & Rituals at 6:23 PM on March 16, 2008

H.A's Answer

Dear friend prashant, my understanding of kundalini can be confirmed from my blogs if you nedd to do so. All living beings have their chakars opened to the limit of their developed consciousness as it is closely related to the developed ego. I say this becasue it is only through our consciousness that we are aware of anything. thus consciousness must be the partially opened kundalini. intensity of ones desire is the method of opening or guiding this through the different chakras. but this requires purification of thinking to enable safe development of this subtle system. the awakend power of this kundalini in normal persons is only 3 to 5 % the full power of this is 100% thus 97 to 95 % is dormant in the subconsciousness. kindly be careful in this delicate matter so do it in presence of a qualified teacher.

Answered at 6:38 PM on March 16, 2008

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Is it posible to have a Genuine true Relationship, the so called clean Friendship with the opposite sex without taking him / her to bed?

Asked by Cajetan in Family at 2:43 PM on March 06, 2008

H.A's Answer

Yes ! but the whole reason that you both are attracted to each other would not find justice, so just let the heart mind body and soul lead you rather than having such a useless friendship. may it useful not just by having sex or not just make yourself happy in the presence of each other in body mind and soul. that is where the real fun is not only in sex and bed.

Answered at 4:43 PM on March 09, 2008

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Happy womens day to all the ladies over there. And gentlemen tell me did u help any lady today, how?

Asked by aruna in Family at 5:02 PM on March 08, 2008

H.A's Answer

I would make her feel beautiful and happy that she was a real lady, Praise her about her looks, her wisdom( even if she did not have evough I would create it for her,) If she was married I would compliment her husband that he was really lucky. I would not mind telling a lie if it would make her day. This Is because I know she would imagine all these about me even though I am 52 yrs old.

Answered at 4:29 PM on March 09, 2008

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how to beat up my brother if he is stronger than me?

Asked by ashrith in Family at 12:01 PM on March 07, 2008

H.A's Answer

By making him so tired by any clever means untill he could not lift his hands any more. You could use also the means of love which is really stronger than muscle power.

Answered at 4:32 PM on March 09, 2008

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In above 40 age how to keep ourself fit ?

Asked by sunita in Family at 10:19 PM on March 06, 2008

H.A's Answer

more than anything that works just keep telling your self that you are not old . compare your self with older people you will see that you are right. this thing about fitness is really in the mnid rather than in flesh and blood.

Answered at 4:39 PM on March 09, 2008

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my wife is not satishfied from me but she is honest. what can i do for my wife?

Asked by kapil bansal in Family at 2:03 AM on March 07, 2008

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It isd not only yore wife all the opposite sex have been given this blessing from the almighty, that they will never be satisfied, and we men are given the asignment of trying to please them this is what really makes the world progress. the day they the women say that they are satisfied I personall think the world will come to and end. So keep that head high and try your best knowing very well that you cannot satisfy her . just accept it as a compliment from them.

Answered at 4:37 PM on March 09, 2008

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