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What is the biggest weakness that can't be forgiven by you among or any one of your family members?

Asked by My creations in Family at 3:34 PM on April 18, 2008

H.A's Answer

Physical asualt! by any member.

Answered at 4:49 PM on April 20, 2008

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wat is oral sex?? N can it b harmful!??

Asked by Baby :) in Sexual Health at 8:24 AM on March 22, 2008

H.A's Answer

The word Sex in this question I understand is related to intercourse, or in plain words union or insercertion of private parts or urinogenital part or parts of reproductory organs by the male with the female. As pentration can be done by the male into the female organ, the female receives and the male donates the fliud that has the potencey of producing a body to a child that will be born in due course of 9 months. Thus sex is mainly performed with the intention of accquring progeny. any other intention other than this is desire is performed for sensual pleasure. Using any other part of the body or instrument just to stimulate the partner is called fore play done mainly to arouse the partner to a level or state of pleasure so that she or he surrenders to the desires of the other. The only problem that exists is hygine, the male should clean inside the fore skin to ensure that is is maintained clean, similarly the female should ensure cleanliness even if mouth tounge and lips are not used to stimulate each other. regular intercourse is the best and complete method of keping these parts clean.

Answered at 4:44 PM on April 20, 2008

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When you are engulfed by darkness, what would you do?wait for some one to light a candle or you make an effort to dispel the darkness on your own?

Asked by My creations in Self Development at 5:54 PM on April 12, 2008

H.A's Answer

darkness and light are two sides of the coin. this is the duality concept of reality. light is perceived by us as reflection of the suns visible energy band, light would not be preceived by us if there was no things on earth to reflect it. thus to remove darkness we require only a object large enough to reflect it. drakness is also known as ignorance in one sense, this is removed by understand that thing.

Answered at 5:10 PM on April 14, 2008

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मेरी शादी होके 4 साल हो चुके लेकिन अबतक बच्च्चा नही है कोइ उपय बताओ

Asked by narendra in Family at 8:13 PM on April 12, 2008

H.A's Answer

Propitate lord in the form of a child, We can choose any we like. try fasting on thursday and try to be in the present rather than future or past, this is best done by thinking about the lord or godess as a child and you are playing with it. Getting your female partener healthy ( the way to ensure this is to bring the menstural cycle to coinside with the lunar cycle, fasting regular excercise, and positive thoughts of joy can bring aboutthis. giving gifts that are needed by childless couple or doing seva to them will get you both the necessary blessing needed. feed a black dog everyday to ward off previous lifes mis deeds.

Answered at 6:49 PM on April 13, 2008

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DIFFERANCE IN BETWEEN VRATA & SADHANA ? HOW THE SAME IS USEFUL IN SELF DEVOLOPMENT ?

Asked by SHIVA in Self Development at 6:30 PM on April 13, 2008

H.A's Answer

self development can be done in all the three state physical, mental and spiritual.
vrata can be used in development in physical and mental as well as spiritual as it involves mostly fasting be it abstantion of food or act or thoughts. this is mostly clubed with perticular days, as each day , thithi, karna are ruled by peritcular dieties they are used to attain that perticular thing assigned to these lords. Now sadhana is more well defined tried and teseted method of attaining pruirfication, perfection and maturity. Vrata does purify but in a limited sense as compared with sadhana.

Answered at 5:01 PM on April 14, 2008

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Why the men are unfaithful to their wifes?

Asked by Miranda . in Family at 4:30 AM on April 13, 2008

H.A's Answer

Male and female are not two but one in seperate bodies, thus there does not arise a situation where this can happen with out the contribution of both. we humans have a easy way of satisfying ourselves that the problem lies in the others rather than us, even it if is true we always have a part in getting the situation to where we have contributed it to.

Answered at 6:42 PM on April 13, 2008

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A woman described her weaknesses against husband’s sex ability openly to female friends and one of her friend want to take advantages. What should do the Hubby?

Asked by KALYAN in Family at 11:17 AM on April 05, 2008

H.A's Answer

Satisfying our patner sexually is mainly in the mental capacity of the person it really doesnot really depend on only one of us, this act which is a gift from god used to bring souls into the karma bhumi is having a unique ability of both togeather. the part of enjoyment through it is only built into it so that we engage in it and help the lord in continuing this creation. Here are some tips for both to achieve the complete bliss of getting progeny and joy of life attached to the complete act with begetting the love and pleasure of the offspring is given here to the best of my knowledge. union or sex can be extended to everything in this manifested world right from energy, sound, gases or air, to water and earth it continues untill the formation of humans from food. 1) sex involves all the three body ,mind and spirit. 2) the fore play involved before the act is very important in bringing the parteners to the level or state in all the three body mind and spirit to a peak of energy thus culminating in orgasium, this is important as adequate energy is then provided by both for the health of the child. 3) use the body marma points to the maximum to arrive at this state. 4) the mental state of the parteners must be equal for boths satisfaction. either being incompatable can lead to both being dissatisfied. 5) remove all negative feeling about this act before engaging yourself in it. 6) do not engage in the act if you are un well, or if the other does not feel the want for it. 7) help each other in attaining the highest state of enjoyment by being aware of the others wants or needs, do not feel shy to ask the other. any specific quries on this subject may be asked in private if desired.

Answered at 6:30 PM on April 06, 2008

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My 8 yeas son suffering from Cough since last 7 days, had given Alopathic medicine & improving, is there any Ayurvedic medicine to protect from caugh ?

Asked by Shan Roy in Family at 1:27 PM on March 25, 2008

H.A's Answer

Hello! friend would you like to try somthing that is not dealing with medicine? then just give him some cough syrup to give temporary relief. There is somthing called MUDARS, this is a art of curing the trouble created by "vayu" one of the basic elements our body is made up of. this treatment works on the energy sheath of our body and redirects vital energy flow that is trapped in the regions of the intestine which causes cough. The fore finger represents vayu when this is bent to touch the base of the thumb along with wraping the thumb over the index finger relief will be experienced as soon as the gasses move forward relaxing the intestine and muscles due to flow of prana to that region. the effect will be within a short while. just remember not to keep it pressed with force just slight gental contact is sufficient, regarding food give him cool food like curds to remove the excess heat from thr stomach.

Answered at 4:01 PM on March 30, 2008

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Give me some good tips for a happy married life... what makes the partner more happy and what she needs or expecting from a husband?

Asked by Shinas in Family at 9:19 PM on March 22, 2008

H.A's Answer

Any relationship will be successful only if we concentrate on what we want out of it rather than what the other wants. The main problem the other way around is that we put so much effort to please the other that our effort goes to waste as both ae trying to please the other which is not the same thing they want as each is trying to satisfy the other and not what he /she wants. the psychology of each individual goes into disturbance when he cannot get the other satisfied. this creates all the trouble since we only know the effort we put, then we feel the other must recognise it and appriciate it, thus we actually want to satisfy not what the other wants but apprication of our efforts, when this is not realised we become angry. and ruin each others efforts. So REMEMBER THAT HAPPINESS IS IN GIVING RATHER THAN IN GETTING.

Answered at 4:10 PM on March 30, 2008

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what should husband and wife do to have better understanding?

Asked by CA. Gautam in Family at 1:37 PM on April 03, 2008

H.A's Answer

understand that every relationship is not what the other wants but what you individually want. this way you both will get what you want. the other way around will only lead to mis understanding what the other wants and end up in trouble. The statement love is giving is right but we have the ability to give this is actually by the way of acquireing what we want to give ( this is a little tricky situation but practice this and achieve a blissful married relationship.

Answered at 6:35 PM on April 06, 2008

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