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Can u tell me onething. is musterbatiion harmfull? i love to do it. p hepl

Asked by raima in Pregnancy at 9:21 AM on April 23, 2008

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Well Reema no, never.It is an urge ur body dictates u to do, same way u feel hungry.Yes ofcourse its harmful if u do excessively against ur will n body requirements.Just do it normally n regularly once or twice carefully ,no probs.but its sd not b 12 hrs or 24 hrs biz.

Answered at 10:41 PM on April 25, 2008

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Are the infertility Treatments covered under Medical Insurance

Asked by sunita rathi in Pregnancy at 8:39 PM on April 19, 2008

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No, no provision for it at all. maternity or child birth related hospitalisations r also not covered under individual/family package Policies.Maternity coverage is an optional on payment of additional premium in case of Group Mediclaim or Health Insurance,where all members whether u b a male or a kid or an old man,all hv to contribute extra additional premia

Answered at 10:35 PM on April 25, 2008

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how can we remove nagitivity from our mind?

Asked by mohit mohit in Personal Health at 12:43 PM on April 21, 2008

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Well every human being has two sides in his/her thoughts.And negativity is just one bad side of his/hers. It goes along as long as one survives/ lives.It is good thing or a quality a human possess.Once he/she stops finding negativity in his/her life,he will not find what the positivity of it as well. Its vice versa, just 2 sides of the same coin.Now what to react, how to react or which one u should adopt for positive result,a fruitfull result ,is a matter of concern.To get a desired result,one has to c the better side,say positivity like brightness,a ray,sun.We fear darkness,bad friendship,things that hurt us, actions that hurts our emotions or sentiments( coz de r all negative points/sides ) and so lookforward towards positive results always ( reading some books on successfull personalities,or the ones based on value,morality can divert ur focuss, regular physical exercise ,yoga,good company or keeping oneself busy in a nice envirnment can develope a faster n better effective human being).Every good results always starts with negative thinking ,mindset or to know things which are right or wrong.SO, dont b panic,its all about concetrating on the things that u get a desired result for urself n ur family or others whom u feel u r concerned. Its all abt grooming urself.Thanx

Answered at 10:51 PM on April 23, 2008

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what a person can take at home if he is suffering from diroehea or loose motons along with ther medicnes

Asked by rajesh goyl in Personal Health at 6:34 AM on April 24, 2008

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Plenty of fluids, particularly juices (although apple juice sometimes provokes diarrhea in children). Hv Tomato juice or mixed vegetable juices because they're rich in sodium and minerals lost through diarrhea.
Avoid solid foods, even if you feel hungry, for the first day.Hv Soups, broths etc..Turn off to caffeine; it can irritate the bowel.
Avoid carbonated drinks because they can affect contractions.Hv selective bananas coz easily digestible,it helps restore minerals lost in the bowel.

Answered at 9:21 AM on April 24, 2008

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Is it worth making friends on line? Please elaborate.

Asked by Himant Kaka in Agony Aunt at 9:19 PM on April 24, 2008

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depends on individuality.If u hv thousand friends in ur village or vicinity, ask urself hv u got1 good reliable friend with whom u can share everything- fine, now if now look forward alternative- who knows u could get1 throw ibibo........... next if u r in towns/cities same question applicable. NOW the world ir urs, the entire decision or life is URS, no1 including ur parents or close relatives cant change ur decisions, at times, but good company or good friendship can. Just c what happens, what an online friendship can do for u.God bless u in ur new adventure/endeavour.

Answered at 11:29 PM on April 24, 2008

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If any1 likes u who is very older than u(30or33)and u like him but u r too young for him(15or17)and u know u cant be together!So wat do u do accept him or deny

Asked by Fariha in Love & Romance at 11:17 AM on March 29, 2008

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For friendship, no age barrier. Love knows no boundary either.But when u talk of marriage, union of two hearts, obviously, a gap of 5 to 10 yrs maximum , should not hv probs. If its 20/35 or 20/40, its more or less likely to not a long lasting happy relationship. take ur own time till u attain some 22/24 etc etc.

Answered at 9:54 AM on April 24, 2008

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Girls, why don't you prefer friendship/relationship with married-guys? I think married guys are more mature, caring, respectful & responsible than bachelors ..

Asked by Honey Hubby in Love & Romance at 7:41 PM on April 21, 2008

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If u can rely upon any1 after God is the one who is matured n more so if some1 is married who is sensible with family n kids ( ofcorz not all but majority) for obvious reasons they hv better experiences in life-dey know whats life,whats good n bad.if u think ur Dad/Uncle is a minow,less-experienced den u, less know-how,less dependable reliable den u or others in ur age groups,u r in fool's paradise 4 sure.Having said so-sex or romance is all a nonsense stuff in friendship specially cant b , one way traffic ,more so in friendship not a factor,a must do exercise.In friendship, everything is possible but it has to b long term understanding. In our society,as of now friendship or love is still restricted to selfish gain,say just sex a prime motto.In friendship or in a relation,there is no age/gender/caste barrier.Its simply the unconditional burgeon,a biz.Mutual respect being the Key.Remember,most young guys/girls hv a nightmare b4 it actually happens,is --- a fact, untold non-declared truth

Answered at 11:20 PM on April 21, 2008

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my computer has became headache 4 me. is turns off itself when i do important work, secondly its performance is lower then its configuration, what should b done

Asked by Mrinal in Computers & Technology at 9:28 AM on April 22, 2008

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If u feel no Probs in RAM, u can check ur connections, many a times,we c the plugs r not put in properly, daily defragmentation also can help.Virus cleaning also can faster ur system.check CMOS battery too,it might b down or low. If u hv less den 25% space in ur C drive,it can also lower ur speed.try all these first b4 u call a computer engineer ( who might pocket 200 or more bucks for silly one of the works told here).

Answered at 9:43 AM on April 22, 2008

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What if I do not marry at all? Will there be any problem? Please elaborate.

Asked by Iqbal khan in Agony Aunt at 9:08 PM on April 18, 2008

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Its always better not to marry.It all depends. its ur life.The most advanced countries like USA,Canada or Zerman or China, Russia et al ,the percentum of marriage r lesser compared to other developing or underdeveloping countries.U got to c only_ R u not getting bored by not marrying?? in ur rest of life time?? If u hv suitable reply to it-u know ur answer too. There is no place for an excuse later.( Jo Delhi ka laadu khaayaa woh bhi postaayaan, jo nayhi khaayaa wo bghi postaayaa)

Answered at 10:51 PM on April 21, 2008

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I have a kid(Son) of 4 years and my hubby wants to have one more but I don want. Or pls tell me what would be better for me to do?

Asked by Bimoni in Agony Aunt at 8:11 PM on April 21, 2008

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May b u dont love him as much as ur partner or vice versa or there is a big communication gap or in understanding.Why u hv dat inhibition, psychological pressure not to hv another,whereas ur first child is already 4 yrs ( n in my opinion its already late by 2 or more yrs) and against ur hubbis will? If u dont want another baby ,just tell him openly justifying ur conclusion to him, n i m surely he ll agree to u if u can convince him.God bless u

Answered at 10:46 PM on April 21, 2008

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