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mine profile shows 1 request left but when i open says no request y

Asked by max pane in Computers & Technology at 7:17 PM on May 17, 2008

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Rcently, IBIBO after few changes in their website_ have created this probs.Hope, they will rectify it soon.In my case also few friends request hv been shown and when u look out for the same, it says no requests so far and also my profile vistors have been reduced substantially and remained status quo thereafter.Its just a minor thing,and i m sure,they ll soon make over it.

Answered at 7:24 PM on May 17, 2008

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What are the roles of a parent for their 16-year-old child?

Asked by My creations in Family at 7:46 AM on May 17, 2008

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We see tremendous physical/biological/mentle/psy chological changes in the age groups of 13/14 for females and 15/16 in males. There cant b the better guide and friends to him/her other than the parents,themselves.The Parents , they c as their idol,a role model.So, its the moral duty of the parents to study them minutely,their behaviour,mindset and to give them required inputs including better education,moral habits and tips of good and bad affects in a changing envirnment.They have acquired by that time some knowledge of sex.So on adult education, the parents hv to initiate and discuss and educate them properly. Its better U decide to tell before he /she learns the bad things/affects from other friends or guardians or from unknown sources which may be detrimental for the child. We c they are more curious in creativity,innovative things and thats why, we should be philosopher,guide, a friend to him/her.We should encourage his curiosity to resolve in the best possible way,the knowledge/experiences we hv gathered in life,as parents to our growing children.

Answered at 9:26 AM on May 17, 2008

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why do people take to smoking and drinking even when they know it is injurious to health?

Asked by shivani in Agony Aunt at 4:07 PM on May 14, 2008

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U sd ask this Q to one who takes drinks and not the one who doesnt_ or avoid it or dare not come even near or think of it dat it can b consumed too. There r more than 25 percent people ( some 25% of 600 crores = 150 crores) who doesnt drink be it wine or whisky. We just follow others n beilive in some1 who ( whoever he be ,a riska puller or thela or famous Madona) is strong in Politics.We mostly forget things that comes out from brain, from hearts of life

Answered at 10:26 PM on May 15, 2008

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my penis does not go in. what to do

Asked by Pawan Kumar in Sexual Health at 5:55 PM on April 19, 2008

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If i undestand correctly, u might be talking of no penetration.if thats d case__ u can take a tip( live) or two from ur friend whom u rely on or from sexologist. But thats not easy-we r human n we r little shameful to share with others outwardly. U may b having extra large cock to make u little difficult to penetrate, next u may b having large foreskin that doesnt open up clearly even after erection. Try lots foreplay, like kissing,hugging,oral ,massaging etc and push ur penis only after ur partner is totally horny.Once ur partner is real hot and horny its c who ll fuck u .Use ur finger and also oil or lubs and c u gonna having a nice time.Good luck.

Answered at 9:09 AM on May 16, 2008

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Is hotel available at 11 pm in Mumbai CST??

Asked by saurav in Mumbai at 11:55 AM on May 07, 2008

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I keep cumming Mumbai once every alternate months. Ya so far in last 19 yrs of my service,,,,, no probs.At best u need a credit card and a hotel booking in advance n ur hotel is there almost 18 to 20 hrs , i mean u can check in, in many hotels in Mumbai including CST or VT or Churchgate almost till 12 midnite without booking and till 2am after midnite if u hv advance booking .Only in rare ocassions u may miss a room in hotel if u reach there without prior booking.

Answered at 10:05 PM on May 15, 2008

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how 2 deal with premature ejaculation

Asked by Amit Kumar in Personal Health at 1:18 PM on April 22, 2008

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Premature Ejaculation is a psychological factor compounded with lesser-n lesser -experiences, control over body and mind.Some others may include of penis sizes and uncut or larger foreskin et al which is not true but a myth only. U hv more tendency to hv early ejaculation if ur foreskin is larger/thicker or tight ones ,sometime.During the excitement alone, i mean, once the skin comes out, u hv the tendency to ejaculate early as u stimulate faster ,before actual penetration,at times.In those cases, control over mind and body and experience counts. A tips or two from sexology or psychologist would be ideal. I dont agree that older people ,say after 40yrs or more, will hv that problems which is almost common in early life,specially un-married ones.But even in early life- those who r regualr,at least once or twice a day- do masturbate, i think they will not hv that probs barring few exceptions( Sexual male Dysfunction). One may read books on Art of Sex for healthy conjugal life.Sex is divine,pure,uncondition love, a form of communication,mutual trust,a must do exercise for mental,physical and psychological growth, performance,re-productions besides a symbol of manhood. A lot of foreplay alone before orgasm or penetration can enhance ur conjugal life. if u want to hv control over (or win her heart or vice versa) ur partner-satisfy her first and think for urself and gradually u both tend to finish the job same time and keep smiling forever. Good luck ( if need further ask separately,privately).

Answered at 10:24 AM on May 15, 2008

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I'm getting nuisance calls, what can I do?I'm suspecting one of my old friend is doing ,and it's coming from different nos.

Asked by ekta mehra in Agony Aunt at 5:09 PM on May 13, 2008

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U know what? if u ask me personally-- i do get calls ,many may b some 3 or 4 calls at the same time_ may b same time, sometime only ok? my both cells n also 1 or 2 calls in my 4 landline office numbers, but ofcourse all for obvious reasons, biz matters mostly.The trick is attend attentively to ones u need,u feel like_ ignore ones u dont like to attend_ how u know ? Most Numbers u can know from dialer readings either in ur Landline or cells_ Next u almost know the caller once u hear the voice ( enable the voice-speaker) ,and before u answer hi, hello u could almost recognise who is talking from other end whether ur known 1s or someother.Ur landline or Mobile has a system to operate to ignore some1 as busy or engaged tone with one touch. U know what -- the man on phone will believe ur line engaged or busy instantly n will not know u hv done deliberately.That way u can kill many snakes without ur stick being broken and auto-resolving ur probs.Just try once.

Answered at 10:36 PM on May 13, 2008

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BEFORE MARRIAGE SEX IS WRONG OR RIGHT????

Asked by Ritik Rajput in Do It Yourself at 9:44 AM on May 13, 2008

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Its all individual perceptions, thinking, a psychology. U cant say YES or NO. If u ask some1's experiences then different.If u ask me i ll say YES i had, but no1 inlcuding my spouse or parents donno,U cant share certain things.Its all within oneself.If u feel guilty or got caught after the sex, u may be nowhere.If u r sure,u hv secured place and a friend who understand u equally for that operation- just go ahead-dont ask any1's advice- just do man and forget the incident.Pls dont mix up women with wine.Be discreet and if u feel guilty never proceed it-U b virgin and learn the expeirences on a bed of roses night.

Answered at 10:13 AM on May 13, 2008

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I have seen several times that after death of wife br in law to marry his wife's sister,still society is telling br in law is like brother,.why this ?

Asked by Sarita . in Agony Aunt at 6:34 PM on May 12, 2008

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We live in a patriarchal Society-where daughter is bound to go away to her in-law/hubby,a new home after her marriage.After the marriage we find many in-law feels she is like their daughter and if her hubby dies ,the untimely death may invite in-security to her life and the children if she-has.What is the option now-Her in-law cant simply allow her to re-marry anothe male n bring him to their house for which she will be asked to marriage brother-in-law after due consultion with her parents and also her br-in-law.We hv a society and long tradition in majority cases to neutralise the broken hearts of de-spoused ones and her parents which is possibly not found in other culture.We r too emotional,sentimental,liberal besides our main concerned is ,may b, humanity.

Answered at 9:48 AM on May 13, 2008

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