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Please tell me what are the advantages of co-education?

Asked by Smith Shah in Teenagers at 2:45 PM on April 01, 2008

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Well-Co-education is 'equality' of gender that does not mean 'sameness of age or homework ' alone but of same feeling, openness of mind, body, soul,thot, ideas,inquisitiveness,curosity ,same farsightedness,souldering responsibilty more n more in future life et al

Answered at 9:54 PM on April 01, 2008

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Would it be worthwhile for me to give up my job as soon as I have a baby? Pls elaborate.

Asked by Papiya Sen in Agony Aunt at 7:02 PM on March 21, 2008

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Why to leave job? yes u hv to- if u r financially strong-ur hubby is earning a lot ( say 50k plus a month ) , just imagine the Maternity leave provisions Govt has provided ( if ur hubby or urself a Govt or semi-govt employee ) as soon as u r conceived n also time till its delivered n u r recovered- U get so many leaves n so why to surrender a lucrative jobs u r doing_ its so difficult to get a job... By the way for the betterment of the child its always ( my opinion scientifically/logically however) wanted that mother should b with the kids for not less than 5 to 10 hours a day ( exclude sleeping at night from10/11pm to morning 5/6am) as he/she grows up from 0 age to 15yrs of age for his better future.Even working woman with flexible timers can afford it n can c better result in her all round development of the child. So u better know whats to be done,having said so.

Answered at 2:38 PM on March 23, 2008

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Dd u notice that in scooter and car collision, the public makes a big crowd, always in support of scooterist.Mistake of overtaking/comng n right done by scooter

Asked by Writer in Agony Aunt at 3:46 PM on March 22, 2008

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Yea,its human psychology that the mob is supporting the scooterists as coz the scooterist is weaker.The law of the land ( as i happen to see/read/find very often) is that in collission cases normally- the lighter the vehicle u drive has a better ruling from the Judge. In collission cases both the party is involved , though the ratio of negligence may vary. The scooterists/motorcyclist vs car, car vs mini-truck, mini truck vs a bus and so on. In majority the stronger/heavier vehicles are penalised more than the other.the court is lenient towards weaker, more stringent towards the haves. But things r totally different if the Have ones are the beaurocrates/high profile or Goons/mafia sorts. The mob also supports one who can shout louder than the other instantly after the accident and blindly believes the other party is at fault. Is not it funny here in India? The Police authority, who was not a part of the eye-witness- will be glad to meet one who is bargainable/adjustable at a higher bucks and will register the case against other who cant afford the same.

Answered at 12:18 PM on March 23, 2008

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I am married for four months , there is intellectual incompatibility and my wife has suggested for a mutually consented divorce.

Asked by Ankit Reddy in Divorce at 10:41 AM on March 21, 2008

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When a divorce proposal comes from wife u wana should immediately agree to it__ but remember one thing --u r also a father and u hv no right to spoil his/her life ahead who is yet to born__ now if u wonder how come there b a baby in four months married life_ that could also b one main reason why she wants a divorce_ but no1 is a better jusdge than u, u do what ur heart says_ its ur life_ God Bless u

Answered at 10:41 PM on March 22, 2008

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i am attracted towards unmarried girl and she also , what will be her reaction when she will come to know that i am widower though i am good looking with 1child

Asked by ashutosh in Agony Aunt at 11:45 PM on March 21, 2008

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Marriage is a sacred bonding,divine/soul ,a religion made for each other.Its not a Twenty20 game or a thing to joke of. When two hearts are solemnised,united for a happy married life_ one should trust other spouse_ should be loyal/faithful and oppenness is a must.If u feel u really think for the future of your child _ n happinness for slef_ u must tell her the truth about ur dispousal. If u both know each others well n everything n thereafter,u sd proceed.I suppose u r not that rich guy like bollywood or hollywood actors or celebis etc. where theirs life-style is little bit different.Theres is a life- mostly based on materialism and they r the ones-whose lives r mostly not a very happy life( tho they look idol sorts to some poor indians who r fan of or crazy after them)

Answered at 12:38 PM on March 23, 2008

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My wife wants a divorce.Ho do i stop her?

Asked by Arun Gopal in Divorce at 8:43 AM on March 21, 2008

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Thats not a big deal__ almost all wife(ves) say that 4 obvious reasons we live in a society ( patriarchal )where who ever she may be_ how high or low c b _ whatever - whichever_ whosoever c b _ she is all after a woman/wife __ b it PM or President of India or Prince etc etc- she has to land in different world leaving her own land where is born___ soo we should understand/adjust to her situation or atmosphere/environment ( we should sometime place ourselve in her/their position ,dont we? should we not?), if u feel that way n hv answer u know what i meant

Answered at 10:53 PM on March 22, 2008

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how can we change politics

Asked by trisha in Agony Aunt at 10:25 PM on March 18, 2008

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Yes, we can change the Politics of India ,map of India,a proud India ,mera bharat mohaan,much ahead of other nations n make India better ,uncomaparable if we plan long term_ say 25 years planning from now. Firstly, minimum qualifications- he/she is one in 20 Toppers in 10th or in 12th stnd. Exam, second- he/c is less than 50 yrs for state rank ministers or below, n less than 60yrs for any posts like cabinet/CM or for PM/President of India, next he/c cant hv a luxury car or palacious building in his life time once he is declared a member either in state as MLA or MP or a minister. Next,There should not b second term election provision for him/her.Next- he/she doesnt hv children more than ONE. Next for PM/President POst the first requisite qualification is that he/she is among TOP 1000 in IAS/IPS cadre n next he has represented state or country in sports not less than FIVE times as winning member of the TEAM n atleast once a gold winner. Besides,he/she is not allowed Z security n more than two escorting vehicles, n on unofficial tour he is not entitled to travel by AIR n also move without any security.Further he knows atleast 5 indian major languages. Well ,something rigid/harsh/lenient of this sorts,a must for a complete re-strutures of indian Polity_ u can add more n c where it goes. So cheer up for better Indian future tomorrow

Answered at 12:17 AM on March 19, 2008

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i am having cds. it is data cds. i want to protect it from piracy. please tell how to protect my cd? is there any software or tricks? tell me

Asked by chaitanya in Self Development at 1:53 PM on March 19, 2008

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Its almost impossible that u can get ur CDs/DVDs copywrites protected from an expert ushers, once u publish/sell or lend it to others for use. But for normal users or some PCs or computers or CD cant copy it-Why? How?--Let ur CD be oversized-say more than 80GBs ( use fake TOC-table of contents), or a Securom( means one cant copy it with CD-Roms). Other softwares u need while making original CDs are --safedisc,Discgaurd,laser lock, cdcops etc etc.

Answered at 10:45 PM on March 19, 2008

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what is the budget allocation for all districts of assam under untied fund

Asked by pranjal in Dispur at 2:13 PM on March 21, 2008

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There is no provision separate Budget allocation dristict -wise

Answered at 12:43 PM on March 22, 2008

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i wan to get imforamtion about mba__

Asked by arjun charan in Self Development at 4:27 PM on March 17, 2008

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type MBA n search in ur internet browser, n try for best b-schools.If u r already an engineer or appearing in final, just the right time. If u want to do it in States or UK u can do both same time, i mean graduation plus MBA. So best of luck

Answered at 10:20 PM on March 19, 2008

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