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if one can really find a good lover or life partener on the net or though chatting without seeing each other ?

Asked by shivani in Love & Romance at 8:17 PM on May 13, 2008

baltej singh's Answer

speaking about the possibility of it --- surely yes!!
[ but it remains a daisy chance to take!! BEWARE!!]
i personally know couples who became lovers via internet , got married & are doing really gr8 in their lives today.
but again the probability of hitting a wrong instead of a right person is of the order say 20:1 [which is not very encouraging] .
besides , such relationships remain virtual in many aspects and take lot of time to build. you are always suspicious about ur potential partner....
& above all when it comes to telling about such a relationship to ur parents .. you know what answers to expect!!!!

Answered at 7:58 AM on May 14, 2008

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if love decreases between husband and wife after love marriage or there is no difference ?

Asked by shivani in Love & Romance at 8:15 PM on May 13, 2008

baltej singh's Answer

there will be as many answers to this question as there are type of people....
although expectedly it should deepen in case of love marriages but unfortunately the figures prove otherwise. divorce cases in case of love marriage exceed those in case of arranged marriages...
but exact opposite examples also exist{though rare} where love has actually grown with each gone day between the couples.
so it all depends on you, your partner , mutual understanding & respect & depth of the love u share...[ & on luck as well!!!!]

Answered at 7:43 AM on May 14, 2008

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what limit will you define in love before marriage ?

Asked by shivani in Love & Romance at 8:06 PM on May 13, 2008

baltej singh's Answer

well depends from person to person.....
how about living beyond the limits ??
thats what is considered absolute meaning of freedom...
given the Indian context of situation along with present day modernized expectations i think platonic is okay.

Answered at 9:17 PM on May 13, 2008

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if there is going to be love marriage ,the question of dowry should be there or not ?

Asked by shivani in Love & Romance at 8:13 PM on May 13, 2008

baltej singh's Answer

what is love marriage to do with dowry???be it love or arranged dowry remains a taboo anyway.!!!

Answered at 7:34 AM on May 14, 2008

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why girls dis like smoking before love they won't tel anything once they fall in they r telling to stop?

Asked by kishore in Love & Romance at 10:30 PM on May 13, 2008

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whts the problem in quitting man.. it on anycase isnt a gr8 thing !!!

Answered at 7:28 AM on May 14, 2008

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if a girl is earning ,can she keep her pay with her after marriage also or she give it to her husband ?

Asked by shivani in Love & Romance at 8:12 PM on May 13, 2008

baltej singh's Answer

i think if she is modern enough she can take such decisions by herself without having to ask for the advice from ibibo forum..
the answer is very situation governed...
if she thinks of her home as different from her hubby or if she distinguish her self from her husband she might turn to keeping the so called her money to herself...'but that i believe is a display of narrow kinda mindset...
a better couple instead would pool in their money to raise the overall standards of life together & make some better utalization of individually earned money..this gurantees two things:-
1. both enjoy the sense of belonginghood as husband & wife where money is not an issue of earner.
2. their respect for each other as well as the value of savings will grow with time.

Answered at 9:27 PM on May 13, 2008

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I'm getting nuisance calls, what can I do?I'm suspecting one of my old friend is doing ,and it's coming from different nos.

Asked by ekta mehra in Agony Aunt at 5:09 PM on May 13, 2008

baltej singh's Answer

wait for the mystery to be revealed, till such time it is bearable nuisance.....
if it goes beyond the limits of tolerance warn the person that u r about to take police helpif it doesnt stop right away { this is just to give ur probable old friend the last chance to reveal identity}.....
& if the nuisance still persist take help of police to settle the matter.

Answered at 9:00 PM on May 13, 2008

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Love is passion or Passion is Love....Comment...?

Asked by Ishaan Goel in Love & Romance at 4:43 PM on May 13, 2008

baltej singh's Answer

none is true....
LOVE is a kind of EMOTION.
but PASSION is the measure of INTENSITY with which one feels any emotion be it LOVE or ADVENTURE or SPORTS or MUSIC .....people are passionate about all such things including love.

Answered at 9:10 PM on May 13, 2008

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how to select a true lover when you have too much choice ?

Asked by shivani in Love & Romance at 8:03 PM on May 13, 2008

baltej singh's Answer

its gonna be difficult man!
one choice can be to hold a competition amongst all ur lovers { so called}....just take care while u design the quiz for them!!!!
ha ha ha just joking!!!
but i seriously think u r in a mess of fake lovers .. best of luck!!! ;).

Answered at 9:14 PM on May 13, 2008

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