Step One
Know what type of girl you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people's feelings.
Step Two
Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old girlfriends.
Step Three
Attract the type of girl you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.
Step Four
Learn how to make a girl feel good about herself by taking an interest in her life and her aspirations.
Step Five
Consider any unattached girls at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a girlfriend?
Step Six
Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new girls. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.
Step Seven
If you have your eye on a certain girl, let mutual friends know about your interest in her. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell her about your interest.
Step Eight
If you don't have the nerve to directly approach a girl who has caught your eye, consider being her secret admirer for a while. Send her sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let her know about your interest in her.
Answered by
Shreshtha
, an ibibo Master,
at
4:40 PM on July 10, 2009
