Marriages are made in heaven by faith but the married couple has to live on the earth. Clearly, it is the responsibility of the couple to bring the joys of heaven in their real married life by their tactful deeds by best utilizing their talents together. So, both of the two should always be positive, co-operative, polite, tolerant, sweet , soft & sincere in words & actions to keep the life partner always so much happy that the house in which they live becomes a real small heaven on the earth not only for them rather a nice example for others to follow . That must be the real purpose of the marriage. Other matters like running the family for whole life is managed successfully by almost all families as usual. So, it all depends on the joint attitude of the couple how to achieve such real heavenlike atmosphere of joy in the house which is possible too easily, undoubtedly. After marriage in the first meeting itself both should first make a strong commitment that they will never adopt any negative thing with each other in all aspects of future life. That creates a sweet beginning i.e., half haven achieved then itself( well begun, half done). If both are honest, just, peace loving & are free from so called many unnecessary personal egoes in husband-wife matters, it is very easy, never impossible at all. I've come across persons whose married life broke due to very-very trivial matters based on false or real egoes & lack of small adjustments which one has to make at every stage of life. Only basic principles of human dignity & honour are not to be compromised. Rest depends on how much both love each other & what they do to sustain the same. That is the real successful achievement.
Answered by
Shampa 2007
, an ibibo Master,
at
11:42 PM on September 11, 2008
