Love marriages are usually lust marriages and don't last. Arrange marriages are usually arranged by the parents who hopefully have the best interest of their children in mind.
The advantages of a love marriage is that sometime, the couple gets it right and staying together provides family stability.
The disadvantage of an arranged marriage is that your parents got it wrong and chose the wrong person for their child.
Arranged marriage are made by someone who knows you well and loves you. Therefore, they will try and find the BEST possible match for you. (According to statistics arranged marriages have lowest divorce rate) . Moreover, the person one is arranged with is usually someone semi compatible with the other, and these marriages creates whats called a love that grows on you, u grow to love the other person, because usually the other person is kind, smart, and posses all the important qualities. Over time, some of the bad qualities become unnoticeable and one is remained married with an amazing person. Moreover, trying to make this marriage work from the beginning not to disappoint the loved ones who arranged it, usually helps, because both people are willing to go much farther to try and make the marriage work.
Answered by
Mohd Farooq
, an ibibo Master,
at
12:57 PM on May 01, 2008