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me well settled engineer.my girlfrend MBA n well settled 2.we want to marry.But we r 4m different caste.we belong 2 traditional families of bihar.what 2 do?

Asked in Marriage at 12:36 PM on March 20, 2008

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it depends on many factor
1.do you have a younger sister if yes than your sister marriage prospects will be influenced by your decission.
2.how much is the caste difference between two of you.problem related to inter caste marriage are directly prpotional to difference in the caste of engaged person
3.your own perception about the caste system. if it matters to you than you will feel guilty throughout your life.
4.your family member opnion about inter caste and love marriage.
5.had anybody in your family has married into other caste if yes than you will face less problem.higher the number of previous inter caste marriage in a family lower is the no of problems faced by you.
6.to sum up all depends upon you failure or success of this relationship will be entirely your
best of luck

Answered by Ravi Kant , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:29 PM on March 21, 2008

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Ravi Kant
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look dear first u have to believe that love does not looks for caste. and then you have to explain it to u'r family.
but keep in mind that u'l not oppose u'r parents ,
u'l say them 'that yes i respect u'r desision and i'l do everything what u say and then slowly try to explain about u'r love and make an impressive image of u'r girlfriend in front of them. iam sure they will not refuse u then , it may take time but they'r u'r parents they do love u .

Answered by Dr Yukti , an ibibo Advisor, at 12:07 PM on April 04, 2008

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if u love her&she loves u.getmarried.what r u guys waiting 4.?bestof luck.

Answered by roger bacon , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:50 PM on March 25, 2008

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if u r "well settled",what is unsettling u? we r living in 21st century,people are on the verge of going to moon for a vacation,and u r talking of caste and creed.....to hell with it...
come on man.....show some daring....
india is way behind the modern world is just because of the lack of daring people.......we fear everything.....

Answered by manoj , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:46 PM on March 24, 2008

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c..... if you love her truly and you find your life partner in her then there is no looking back.... both of you are succesful in life so if you think you 2 are compatible for life then forget all these castes.... try to mek families understand but even if after telling them they dont understand thenm buddy move on with her coz true love is above all

Answered by Shuddhashil at 8:46 PM on March 21, 2008

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In my view that u both tell about each other to your's family and convince them that make marry.
There is another option that u both r professional and adult do court marriage..
But try first convince method..But remember without family no one will happy..So it's on u which way u go..
Best of luck.......

Answered by ajay kumar , an ibibo Master, at 8:40 PM on March 21, 2008

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what to do means u love her she loves u
now wht is the problem try to convince ur family otherwise marry each other and after marriage all things are setteled again

Answered by ashish at 8:22 PM on March 21, 2008

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