why are all married men and woman always disgusted about their marriage is it that they dont make time for it, or they just are fed up easily with one partner  

U have said it with conviction that ALL the people ALWAYS are disgusted. No! There are many happy couples who are satisfied with their lives.The some who are disgusted are so because of their own inadequacies. When expectations are high or when partners fall short of it, this will happen. Accept ur partner as he is and love the person foe what he is and what is lacking too. That way, one works for a better marriage. Btu of course, it should be a two way process. IT is hugely impossible for only one person to work hard to make a marriage work. It will surely break one day or the other!

Answered by wri ter , an ibibo Master, at 7:11 PM on February 27, 2008

I am a married man and I for sure am not disgusted. So I am not sure what your problem is? And for sure your making a generalized sweeping statement for all married men and women is not right.

There are many reasons why some marriages do not succeed.
1) Incompatibility
2) Both are self centered, selfish, etc
3) Immature
4) Greed
5) Dishonesty, Adultery, etc
and many others which divorce lawyers will be familiar with.

Answered by manu b , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:14 AM on February 28, 2008

a married man is not happy with one woman.every time he will be interfiring with other people. if the wife is a nice educated and working worman also same.do one call finish with ther work with wife.

Answered by Khursheed , an ibibo Master, at 9:35 AM on February 28, 2008

Married life is always filled with joy and sorrow. When they come across joy, the enjoy it and forget it and when they face difficulties, then they feel for it and they never forget it. That is the problem. People should learn the art of forgetting. Then, they can enjoy their wedded life completely. There is no other problems.

Answered by Raghu , an ibibo Master, at 11:03 AM on February 28, 2008

Married life is always filled with joy and sorrow. When they come across joy, the enjoy it and forget it and when they face difficulties, then they feel for it and they never forget it

Answered by amitha s , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:26 PM on February 28, 2008

In india we have a different point of view about life and marrige . here every body willing to get married and after marrige when some one asked about their married life ,they always give a negative approach to others ,despite of being satisfied with their married life.
and joy /sorrow are the two parts of a same coin.

Answered by mahesh , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:11 PM on February 28, 2008

All married men and women are always disgusted about their marriage - Well this is a generalized statement which is not true for all the couples. Ego, Superego and ID, attitude towards spouse, self-centered approach, all play in relationship. And a little fights in couples does not mean that they are not happy with each other. Bitterness in relationship should be self analyzed, and husband and wife can come to better and positive conclusions. In India, most of the couple are happily married as compared to other countries. Because they understand each other and adjust to others feelings.
Still, if you ask someone the answer will be - Shaadi karke main barwaad ho gaya. But it is a fact that they cannot leave without each other at all.

Answered by Punyasloka , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:02 PM on February 28, 2008

Not all are unhappy with thier marriage.Let me tell you something.It takes a lot to make a relation happy.The more you give the better and happier you are.It is very sad that most of the people dont even try to make the marriage happy and seek this emotion outside.This is a very temporary relation and causes more frustration in your life.it does not allow you to strengthen your already existing relation and can never permanise your outside relation.now you tell me what is right and wrong.Dont run away,face the situation with a patient mind and you have a longlasting content relationship.

Answered by Malti Singh , an ibibo Advisor, at 5:24 PM on February 28, 2008

A good example of negative thinking.

Answered by Shameer , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:40 PM on February 28, 2008

Hi....this happens with every married couples.
We can't say tht they have fed up with 1 partner....it just happens to react for the situations. And each & every person has different prespectives and they stick to their basics.
ya.... sometimes they may get bored since they hardly speak with their life partners & look for new...this is only bcoz disliking,misunderstanding, no co-operation with eact other.
But 90% of married couples go calm after analysing...wht went wrong? And how to be together in future.
Think +vely & leading the life is more important in every person!!!!

Answered by Bharath S , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:34 PM on February 28, 2008