yes, it is normal! he is married. he's not a bachelor any more and needs to come to terms with that. right now I'm wondering if he's said something like " I love you, but I also love my friends" how much more time does he spend with his friends VS you?

Answered by joe joe at 11:07 PM on July 18, 2008

i think its normal to feel uneasy if your hubby is spending time with others,when one loves someone he/she becomes possessive about that person and likes him/her to be with her/himself and when that person spends time with others he/she will feel unhappy or uneasy,so i would suggest not to panic and think too much about his habbit and become suspicious without trying to know the reason behind it.it may be a casual habbit of his with no mean intention to avoid you,first talk to him in a clam manner and try to know the reason,may be there is nothing to worry about and make him understand that you need him more to spend time with you,dont force yourself on him uneccessarily,he might understand and change his habbit.

Answered by arun agarwal , an ibibo Advisor, at 4:00 PM on July 18, 2008

If he understand his responsibilities towards family then It is normal from his point of view.

Answered by pawan kumar , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:30 PM on July 17, 2008

obviously....!!

family comes b4 everything and every1...........!! spend time wid ur frndz bt nt at the cost of ur family's happiness.....

Answered by at 11:30 PM on July 16, 2008

Yes!...it's normal to feel so!...aise mein hubby ko samzayen ki wife bhi unaki ek achchhi friend hai; aur anya friends ki tarah, wife ke saath bhi ek nishchit time spend karana chaahiye!

Answered by Aruna Kapoor , an ibibo Advisor, at 4:47 PM on July 16, 2008

If u have ur own activities, like blogging, writing books, kids etc...u wont even notice. In fact, good riddance. But I have seen newly married women cry when their hubbies spend a lot of time with friends and very little with themselves. They feel like show pieces, very left out and neglected.So I am bound to think that what u feel is also right. Yeah, some women feel un easy, not all. It depends on ur nature. Homely and possessive girl u must be.

Answered by , an ibibo Master, at 1:26 PM on July 16, 2008

It is normal to feel uneasy...

It is since you want maximum of his attention.

However try and explain to him your feelings... Donot stop him from spending time with his friends.. It kind of chokes the relationship

When you feel uneasy... Get involved in some work.. Help people around you

Answered by , an ibibo Citizen, at 11:21 AM on July 16, 2008

ya,I can understand it not anyone fault its normally. there is two solution for it .one is that,tell him all clearly that how u fell honestly if he love you the he can under stand....and second is compromise with it...
Now all depends on you which step u take.

Answered by , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:48 AM on July 16, 2008

hi shivangi, one and the foremost thing is trust, when u know yur husband loves u very much then should have complete trust on your husband.. tell him to take u with him wherever he goes for outing..

Answered by Sicador , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:44 AM on July 16, 2008

You have to have the confidence, and show conviction to ask your husband the same thing. Maybe he is doing the same thing. basically going behind your back to ask similar questions. He is to be your best friend. Show it to him, not to online friends. then you wont feel uneasy

Answered by Kaise , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:09 AM on July 16, 2008