If he had sex with your sister then he can again sex with him in future how you can stop him.
You met everytime to your sister reflect guilt of your would be husband. Think any other option, it is better to findout anyone else then teaced for whole life.
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Answered by advocatekamal , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:09 PM on September 07, 2009

no, dont marry him.........

Answered by najumakk , an ibibo Citizen, at 12:21 AM on August 31, 2009

you arent going to be the first one to succumb to these emotional black mails,and its shame on a society thats willing to accept such traditions

Answered by iyer56 , an ibibo Advisor, at 10:44 PM on August 29, 2009

jeevan ki anjaane main ek galti aap kar chuki hai or dussari aap karne ja rahi hai. aisa kyon. ji nahi, ab yaha aapko koi izzat nahi milne wali or na milegi, bahut bada dhokha diya hai aapne khud ko, or 2nd wife ban kar poori jindagi apni marbaad kyon karna chahti hai, ye samajh nahi aaya aapki baatobn se, aap kah rahi hai ki woh aapki sis se bhi sex kar chuka hai, itna kareebi ho kar or ye sab maloom ho kar bhi aapne aisa kar liya. kher koi baat nahi
bhool kar bhi 2nd wife banne ke liye tayyar nahi ho, kyonki jo pahli wife ko chod sakta hai woh 2md 3rd ko bhi chod sakta hai kisi 4th wife. ke liye.
ye baat dhayaan rakhiye.
jindagi aapki hai or faisla bhi aapka.

Answered by Atul , an ibibo Specialist, at 8:32 PM on August 29, 2009

Its ur decision to marry or not,but did u think about what will happen after marriage,how much time ur lover will give u time or to ur sister,this is not some dwapar yug or treta yug where men had more than one wife,and also wives live with some compromise,u may be thinking something odd,but i don't think that u will live as happy as u are today after marriage,there may be some kind of conflicts,though she is ur sister,but then she will be another wife.So don't make decisions very quickly,think about it,talk with ur sister or lover,and if u and they find it comfortable,then go on ur way.no problem.OK

Answered by Abe Hudson , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:41 AM on August 29, 2009