Yes, you should, because they didn't ask you to bring them to this world. You are cruel and doing a crime by leaving them to the society to take care of them. Now, love in marriage means forging, caring, understanding and dropping the ego of being greater than the other. It is not the love that you watch in movies between the hero and his girl.

Answered by zach , an ibibo Citizen, at 5:29 PM on October 21, 2008

yes always for the welfare of own blood

Answered by Rajani , an ibibo Citizen, at 3:18 PM on October 03, 2008

Yes.Thats the way its destined.One has to see Love and marriage go hand in hand ,rather than the right eye seeing the love aspect while the left takes care of marriage aspect.Only if both the eyes are able to see togethr in unison life would become happy and contented.And since out of ther union Kids are borne ,its natural that kids take precedence over all other things.

Answered by Iyer56 , an ibibo Advisor, at 6:08 PM on September 28, 2008

hey idle..after a long time..:) srry for being so irregular.:(
Well as far this love n marriage...i feel for the sake of our kids we do stick with this!The romance n the so called love vanish thru windows once we get into real life.:( I'm not saying that all the couples r like this..but mostly all have this phase(maybe seventh yr itch!) after that we do get along..means u know that u cant run away..atleast for the sake of kids...hehehehe

Answered by lalli , an ibibo Citizen, at 4:05 PM on September 26, 2008

first impp point is that did love ever exist between the couple? DO u think by sticking together u can give your children the best upbringing, and that feigning would not suffocate u. If it doesnt stick together, If it wud part ways while ensuring that ur children r given the best

Answered by Ashima , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:59 PM on September 26, 2008

For giving a safe and secure future for kids, it is the responsibility of parents to fulfill every need of them.

Answered by pawan kumar , an ibibo Citizen, at 10:40 AM on September 26, 2008

Great question, idle.. I think it is safer to stick on together. By sticking on, there are greater rewards later. Love is like a sudden phase. It will be as a temporary passion.Then with constant wear and tear after fights and disagreements, it can thaw. But it will remain in some form. It is comfortable to stick on to it. One should n't desert a spouse because the feeling of love is absent.U can attempt to love the same individual by bringing home flowers everyday, by taking her out for a surprise dinner. Surely it will be sweeter.
Divorce is a necessity between ppl who suffer due to cruelty, neglect, torture, pain, agony and living death.Of that one person would be the perpetrator and the other person would be the victim.Mere lack of love would be like u have forgotten to spend more time together in ur daily hurry in life. So all u need to do is to spruce it up by spending a day out on picnic with out the kids and just u two together. If there had been love and enjoyment of romance at some stage earlier,. It will well up again.

Answered by Vida Writer , an ibibo Master, at 6:18 PM on September 24, 2008