i love a girl and want to marry her but her family is making me lots of problems and i m not able to concentrate on ny thing even my studies as i m in final yer  

Dear Friend/Brother,
Please don't be confused. If you trust experienced and seniors, then read this advise.
1/ Create your daily timetable for studies seriously
2/ Keep yourself busy in Gym/Dance class/or coatching class
3/ If your love is really TRUE and none of you cheating or may ditch due to parents decisions, please speak to your individual parents first, no matter what is the consiquence/output.
4/ speak to each other as what your individual parents thinks on your choices where both has no fixed future and just thininf for marriage at very less age when the world is challanging and competition and inflation is going high and high everyday.
3/ Now, Boy needs to go to Girls parents and vice versa, and let them speak to your cjoice and then only they would be able to know that both are really correct.
4/ take help of third person who can be good at both side, like corporator, social worker, uncles, relatives, principals, techers, grand mother/father..
5/ IF you run away from your parents and decide what you want to do no matters what every one thinks, you will be biggest fool on earth and could enjoy life only for next 4 yrs and there after knowingly will be in pit after that screwing up your lovers live just because you didnt had a successful caree first and before that you went for marriage.

NEVER GO AGAINST PARENTS. IF THEY DO NOT AGREE WITH YOUR CHOICE, respect them, but tell them that they also need to respect your decisions and choices and keep rejectings offers of marriages coming with some or other reason until you both are in successful carees....

rest all GOD BLESS YOU.

Answered by Riki Inprivate at 12:05 PM on May 19, 2013

Do one job at atime.
OK.
That is the secret of success.
Pahle padho.
sab thik hoga.
Fail se kaun kraga saadi?

Answered by TRILOK CHAND at 6:53 PM on May 15, 2009

This kind of complications come in all love marriages.Be patient,calmed and look it like a matured person.Parents would take time to adjust,give then time and try to speak to them.Make them realise that you both make agood coupe .Once they would realise that your decision is right ,they would also give you the blessings.

Answered by meaning .. at 11:49 AM on April 16, 2008

Talk to the girl and then ask her how to deal with the parents.After talking to her try to solve the problems one by one by talking to the parents.Try to solve the easier problems first and then the number of problems will decrease .

Answered by Malti Singh at 1:05 AM on April 09, 2008

This is the time for u to concentrate on ur studies. If u are a a student, nobody will respect u. If u truly love that girl, achieve something in life. Become a man and then ask her hand. If the parents refuse even then, u should have th guts for a runaway marriage. IF she marries before that, u must have the strength of mind to forget and forgive and go ur way.
Now any way, dont spoil ur future, being in the final year, it is crucial time for u.

Answered by Writer at 10:07 PM on April 08, 2008

This normally happens in our indian orthodox society. My dear friend, if that girl really loves you from the bottom of her heart, she will surely marry you, even against the wishes of her parents. But for now, please concentrate more on your studies and leave that domain to her, she may try to console her family members for the time being, For getting success, you need to have patience and time with you. With the active support from your girl friend (if she really loves you and can go against their family wishes), i hope you problem can be solved. Time is a great healer of every thing. Dont be impatient now and take very conscious effort in consultation with your girl friend, dont be hasty because it will hamper your future, career, love and married life.

Answered by N B at 1:37 PM on April 08, 2008

dont leave her.

Answered by girish giri at 12:47 PM on April 08, 2008

you almost try to solve her problems

Answered by kiran kumar at 12:45 PM on April 08, 2008

live her

Answered by Shrey at 12:30 PM on April 08, 2008

1st u concentrate ur studies then u think ur marriage. don't worry about that if u really love that girl she's ur's.sacrifice for anything but don't sacrifice for love.

Answered by shyam kumar at 12:17 PM on April 08, 2008