it depends dear....your question has two sides, negative and positive,,,negative is tht u did some sin and want to hide it now so that your mistakes will not be visible to your husband.... and in future u want to continue it as well......but on the positive side , it will be that you are quite committed and sincere to your husband and donot want to lose him............i will help u in the positive case only,,,, now it depends on the mentaltily of your husband, either he is narrow minded, conservative or he is broad minded and trusting.....if he is conservative and becomes suspicious of little things even then he might get some doubt on you..... bt if he is broad minded then its not a problem for you...because the vaginal of some women has a natural appearance like a woman who has been involved in sex activiites before marriage..... so try to make your husband think positively ......

Answered by Farhan Abbas , an ibibo Citizen, at 1:47 PM on June 02, 2009

No you cannot realised that your wife had fucked by someone

Answered by Sunil Desai at 4:04 PM on May 31, 2009

yes it may be but you need to take some time to prepare the original position of vagina, and do pretended while sex, just do some tricks, so that he always think that she is innocent and don't know about sex. just scared for all about these sexual things if your husband try to propose with you, always reply in scary way, that actually you don't know all about it. close your eyes with your hands when ever you husband try to talk all about this things, and try to making sexual relations, with you , don't allow him for few days.
let him get crazy then agreed so that he never divert his mind to find out what actually, happened with you. in past.

Answered by Atul , an ibibo Specialist, at 1:22 AM on May 29, 2009

no it is almost impossible to say that the girl is not virgin.

earlier it was bleeding on first night by which it was judged, but now these days more than 50% girls already got their "hymen" broken by cycling or athletics so it is not necessary to bleed even if you are doing sex first time so u need not to worry if you are concerned about it due to bleeding

other reason which might be disturbing you is the elasticity of the vagina so i'd like to tell you that vagina is a body part which tightens automatically with time so do not worry if you are concerned about it due to its looseness..

Answered by Sukhjinder , an ibibo Citizen, at 8:14 PM on May 28, 2009

NO. BUT SHE HAVE TO FORGET THAT BOY. IF SHE SHOWS HER INTEREST ON THAT BOY EVEN AFTER MARRIAGE. NO BODY CAN STOP HER HUSBAND TO HAVE DOUBTFUL ON HER.

Answered by Ravi Sharma , an ibibo Citizen, at 7:01 PM on May 28, 2009